Women Who Make Men “Addicted” Have These Three “Scents” That Men Can’t Forget
In life, some women give a lot in relationships, but end up being dumped. Other women, who seem to give nothing, make men crazy about them. These men will even give up a lot for these women.
I once read a novel where the main female character was Hailanju. The Emperor, Huang Taiji, really liked her. But the other concubines were also very fond of him. These women in the palace felt it was unfair that Hailanju could easily get the Emperor’s favor without doing anything.
Sometimes it’s not about pleasing someone to get their love. It’s not a handout.
A woman who makes a man addicted must have something special about her. She also has something about her that men can’t forget. This is why men love her for a long time and are afraid of losing her.
Know Your Place
Women need to be a little more “know-it-all” in love. After some women start dating, they want to be with their boyfriend every second. If that happens, the man’s attitude towards the woman will change.
When I was dating, I really liked my boyfriend. Whenever he had time, I wanted to video chat with him. I wanted him to spend that time with me. One time when I was video chatting with my boyfriend, he said:
“What kind of person are you? You just want to talk to me all day long. You’re holding me back.”
Because it was the first time he said that, I didn’t care. I continued to video chat with him and share things with him.
But one day, my boyfriend suddenly got mad at me. He said:
“What’s wrong with me doing my own thing? Why are you always like this? Stop it, okay? Give me some space.”
When I heard these words, especially when I saw him getting angry at me, I suddenly realized that I should learn to keep my distance from him.
From then on, I stopped texting him first. I stopped video chatting with him first. But he kept bugging me. Later, I broke up with him. I had given too much at the beginning of the relationship, and I was exhausted. I wanted to break up with him.
But he wouldn’t let go. At that moment, I realized that sometimes when you know your place, you’re a very charming person.
But if you keep holding onto him and think that you have your eyes on him all the time, then in his eyes, you’ll be worthless.
Those women who make men addicted are often those who know their place. They know what to do and what not to do. They understand that a man is not their only, nor is he their whole world.
Don’t Take Men Seriously
In life, if you don’t take men seriously, they might feel a little uneasy and come back to you.
Many women in life, when faced with men, always think that clinging to them is the best way. They always think that love will blossom over time. So they’re really good to men, thinking that men will be like women. If someone stays with you for a long time, you’ll fall deeply in love with them too.
But sometimes men and women are different. If you always hang out with a man, he might get really annoyed. He won’t take you seriously. In the world, as Eason Chan sings:
“What you can’t get is always stirring. The favored have no fear.”
So when you treat a man like a treasure, he doesn’t cherish you. When you distance yourself from a man, he might hold onto you tightly, afraid that you will leave.
So when women are in their 20s and 30s, they never act clingy in front of men. But they can still hold onto a man. It’s because these women don’t take men seriously, so they have them wrapped around their finger.
Men and women are different. Women shouldn’t use their own thinking to judge a man. They think that if a man falls in love with someone, he will love them deeply and be devoted to them. But men are not always like that.
Because men generally like to explore society, while women generally like things related to emotions. So men can’t fall in love over time like women do. If there are such men, they are rare and are men who value loyalty.
Pursue Progress
If a woman pursues progress, she is constantly updating herself. When a woman knows how to constantly update herself, she will become better and better. At the same time, she will attract better and better people.
There’s a saying:
“If you blossom, butterflies will come.”
In this world, nothing is a one-time thing. Everything needs to be managed and maintained, and so is love.
When a woman is with a man, if she thinks that after she has a boyfriend, she can slow down, stop moving forward and rely on her boyfriend, or think that she doesn’t have to worry about finding a boyfriend anymore, so she stops pursuing her dreams, she will often fail.
If a woman pursues progress in a relationship, the man will feel that she is always changing, so she will always be fresh.
Men have always had a sense of curiosity and a desire for novelty. So when a woman stays the same all the time, the man will lose interest in her. He will also lose curiosity about her. So their relationship will become more and more distant.
People in a relationship want their partner to understand them better and know them better. But sometimes when someone knows you too well, you will also feel scared. Because when you are dissected by someone and have no secrets left, you have no reservations. At that time, you are the most insecure, because when someone understands you completely, they know that you only have this much to offer.
But some women keep improving themselves. This will make them look better and better in the eyes of men, and they will always maintain a certain attraction.
Women who make men addicted often have some unique characteristics. With these characteristics, men will be inseparable from them.
