Couples issues

How to Make Your Girlfriend Love You More

1. Train Your Girlfriend (Role Perception) Training is not always necessary. If you want a natural beauty, just stand by and admire. But if you want your girlfriend to be tailored to your thoughts or wishes, you need to put in some effort to train her. First, about training, it’s not about forcefully controlling someone’s behavior. The essence of training is to change your own behavior, and the other person’s behavior will naturally change.

April 21, 2025 3 min read

The Most Vulnerable Women in Marriage Are Often Those Who Possess These Two Traits

Goethe once said, “Love is the true driving force that revives people.” When it comes to love, the more you expect, the more you’ll get hurt in the end. In relationships, you’ll eventually realize that the right person doesn’t need you to chase after them desperately, nor do they need you to plead with them humbly. A good relationship is a mutual effort between two people. If one person doesn’t love you, no matter how much you give, it’s all in vain. Marriage is a journey, and for a woman, it’s a gamble. Many women get hurt in marriage, and those who have been hurt often gain new insights into relationships.

April 20, 2025 3 min read

How Long Can a Marriage Last? Discussing “Money” Clears Everything Up

People often say: love and money are always at odds, because talking about money hurts love, and talking about love hurts money. In our ideal world, emotions are simple, pure, without any materialism. But in reality? Money is often needed to sustain a relationship. In love, a man wants a woman who doesn’t care about his money, even if he has nothing. And a woman wants a man who is willing to spend on her, even if it’s just $10 and he spends $9 on her.

April 16, 2025 4 min read

People Who Brush You Off Don’t Love You Enough, Not That They Don’t Love You

In relationships, many people fear being brushed off by their partners because they interpret it as a lack of love. People who truly love each other always have endless words to say. I remember a past relationship when I was young: Back then, phone calls weren’t as common, and my boyfriend and I were in a long-distance relationship. In those days, being in a relationship was often ridiculed, so my boyfriend would call me quietly late at night.

April 16, 2025 5 min read

The Girl Who Loved Money and Ran Away, Two Years Later Her Ex-Husband Got 3 Million and Wanted to…

Loving money is not inherently wrong. Who doesn’t love money in this world? Without money, we can’t wear the clothes we like, eat the food we like, or travel to the places we like. In fact, we might not even be able to survive. It’s precisely because we love money that many people work hard every day, just to earn more. I believe that if given the choice, everyone would want to be rich.

April 15, 2025 4 min read

The Betrayal of Emotions, Making Past Encounters a Mistake

The betrayal of emotions is a thorough harm to a relationship, so it’s not just a careless mistake. Experiencing betrayal in a relationship doesn’t mean it can just go back to how it was initially. Betrayal is actually a denial, not just a denial of the other person’s love, but a thorough one. For those who have experienced emotional betrayal, when they look back on the relationship, they’ll feel like even the initial encounter was a mistake.

April 11, 2025 4 min read

When They Want to Leave You, They Will Give Off These “Signals”

My girlfriend, Emily, and I were college sweethearts. We were each other’s first love, and our time together was truly happy and beautiful. We would study together, work part-time jobs together, and travel together. Those four years of college were a testament to our love. Back then, we were convinced that we would get married after graduation. However, due to work issues, we ended up in different cities after graduation. Although we were apart, we still kept in touch every day. Maybe time had diluted our feelings for each other, because our communication gradually decreased.

April 10, 2025 4 min read

Facing Betrayal in Relationships, Communication is Actually Ineffective

If you experience betrayal in a relationship and seek advice from counselors who only understand theories, they will likely analyze that betrayal is a result of communication issues between spouses. They will suggest that you should just communicate with your partner, and as long as both of you can communicate well, everything will be fine. However, when you try to communicate with your partner, they either ignore you or continue to deceive you, making communication futile. Eventually, you might even start doubting your own communication abilities.

April 6, 2025 5 min read

The Secrets Men Keep When They Love You Deeply

The Deeper a Man Loves You, the Less Likely He Will “Share” These Privacies, Don’t Mistake Finding the Wrong Person Last year, I watched a European and American movie where: The male lead accidentally fell in love with the female lead. When they were in love, the male lead concealed some things. The female lead mistakenly thought the male lead was the soldier she had always admired, so they got together.

April 5, 2025 4 min read

Cheating Men’s Inner Monologue

“Cheating” is a word that’s condemned by society. But even though it’s strongly condemned, it still happens a lot. To figure out why, I’ve talked to a bunch of men from different backgrounds and ages about it. The answers are pretty much the same: they cheat for different reasons. But all those reasons can be boiled down to one thing: their own needs aren’t being met, so they look outside for a way to feel fulfilled.

April 2, 2025 4 min read