Women Who Are Truly “Devoted” Only “Fall” For One Person
I’ve been dating my girlfriend for three years. We were college classmates and our relationship was pretty good back then. But after graduation, we were sent to different cities, so we became a long-distance couple. Maybe because we saw a lot of people, our relationship got weaker. I tried really hard, but it was no use. Now we’ve chosen to break up.
Everyone has different choices in love, but I want to say that women who are truly devoted often only fall for one person. Only devoted women understand these truths.
Love Needs Understanding:
Lily and her husband have been married for six years. When they first got married, they faced a lot of opposition from their families and friends. Lily’s parents thought they were too different because Lily is a graduate student while her husband only finished middle school. So Lily’s parents weren’t optimistic about this marriage.
But even though her parents were against it, Lily still chose to marry him. Because this guy was really good to her, Lily believed they would be happy.
But after they got married, their life wasn’t as good as they imagined. They fought more than once because of daily trivialities. Because they had different values, their arguments became more and more frequent.
Lily’s work was busy, so she had no time to take care of things at home. Her husband thought women should stay at home and raise kids. Lily couldn’t accept this kind of life philosophy. Even though she was a family-oriented person, she chose to end this marriage after six years.
In the world of love, it’s normal for couples to have disagreements. But when problems and conflicts arise, the two people should solve them correctly and understand each other. This is how their relationship can be reconciled. If you don’t understand and communicate, your relationship will definitely be affected.
Love isn’t one person’s problem. Love needs understanding and support from both sides. Only then can you harvest more happiness.
Love Can’t Be Forced:
“Does love disappear?” A reader recently left me this message. But when I saw this question, my nose felt a bit sour. Because in this fast-food love era, love really does disappear. True love has an expiration date. Those who can love for a long time just keep falling in love with each other again and again.
When you’re in a relationship and you don’t feel the other person’s love for you, then they definitely don’t love you. Because we all connect with people we like. If you don’t love someone, you’ll slowly become strangers.
So, we don’t need to lie to ourselves. You’ll know in your heart if someone loves you or not.
So, not forcing love is also a woman’s respect for herself.
Love is Companionship:
Yu Qiu-yu once said: “I didn’t have time to participate in your past, but I’ll be there for your future.”
True love lies in companionship in the ordinary. When two people first get together, they might be curious about each other because of the novelty. But as time goes by, the novelty fades.
Many people think that the disappearance of novelty means the end of love. But actually, it’s the beginning of love. Because only after you understand each other will you become less talkative. This is also a test of your love.
It takes a long time for two people to go from having nothing to talk about to having nothing to say.
Don’t always think that not having common topics means you don’t love each other. Actually, love needs companionship. After your love has stood the test of time, you’ll discover how precious love is.
Miyazaki Hayao once said: “It’s because you’re not perfect that I want to stay by your side and give you happiness.”
In real life, no one is perfect. But people who truly love you will unconditionally accompany you even if they know your flaws. This is the greatness of love. So, love is a silent watch in the ordinary. It’s a kind of happiness for two people to be together for a lifetime. So, I hope you won’t give up on the person who’s been there for you just because of a temporary sense of novelty. I also hope you can find your own happiness in love.
Men also need companionship. Only high-EQ women understand this. Only when a woman gives a man more companionship will he become more dependent on you.
Women who are truly devoted are not without the means to cheat. They know how to cherish love. On the road of love, there are all kinds of ups and downs. Devoted women know how to love better.
