Women Often Say These Things, Indicating They Have “Other Intentions” Early on, Don’t Be Careless
One term is called: Observing Words and Expressions.
It means when we observe something or someone, we can discern what they are thinking through their words and facial expressions.
In relationships, men and women think differently, so they also approach love differently.
Women are more emotional, they speak more indirectly, so when women have other intentions in a relationship, they won’t say it directly.
It’s common to see that when a man changes his mind, it happens instantly. This confuses women because yesterday everything was fine, a few days ago everything was good, and now suddenly he has changed his mind and wants to break up when he’s with someone else.
This is because men are straightforward—when they love you, they really do, but when they don’t, you mean nothing to them.
However, women are different. For women, changing their mind takes time.
In a relationship, a woman may gradually become less dependent on a man, or certain actions by the man may lead to misunderstandings and dissatisfaction. Instead of addressing these issues directly, women accumulate them until they reach a breaking point, ending things with the man.
So, when a woman has other intentions in a relationship, it’s a gradual process.
Men need to analyze from a woman’s words whether she has lost faith in the relationship.
You should observe if a woman is betraying the love in her words.
If a woman frequently says these things, it indicates she already has other intentions, so men should not be complacent.
We’re not suitable for each other
Often, when a woman wants to break up with a man, she will say:
“We are not suitable for each other.”
When a woman says they are not suitable, it means compatibility is crucial in a relationship. Even if you love someone, being together is torment if you’re not compatible.
Some women, already out of love, use this phrase to end the relationship, as saying she doesn’t love him seems heartless and irresponsible.
Saying “we’re not suitable” is just her way of saying, “I don’t love you anymore; this relationship should end.”
In this world, if you truly love someone, you might argue at times, but you’ll stick together.
When choosing a partner, it’s not just about finding someone suitable. The initial attraction or the time spent together should foster love. If you realize you don’t love them, even if you fit well together, most people won’t pursue a romantic relationship with that person.
So, a woman saying “we’re not suitable” is just a way to end the love.
Some women, without explicitly asking for a breakup, often mention this phrase.
Men should be cautious as the woman might bring up a breakup soon, so it’s a warning sign.
You decide for yourself
In relationships, when a man notices a woman saying:
“You decide for yourself,”
It means she no longer cares about his actions.
Many men, feeling restricted, may get upset with their partner.
Ironically, these men are the luckiest because when a woman stops caring, it indicates she no longer loves him, has feelings for someone else, or wants to break up.
So, if a woman tells you to decide for yourself in any situation, whether it’s going out with other women or staying out late, she has already detached herself from you.
At this point, the woman doesn’t love the man anymore. He holds no place in her heart.
When a woman truly loves a man, she worries about him. If he’s late, she’s anxious, concerned for his safety, or if he’s with another woman.
Her worries stem from love. But many men, despite receiving this concern, become impatient.
Men should cherish a woman who watches over them because that shows real love.
You can’t give me what I want
If a woman often tells a man:
“You can’t give me what I want,”
It means she has found someone else who can provide her with the material or emotional security she desires.
Some men, upon hearing this, try desperately to win her back. However, when a man tries so hard, the woman has already made up her mind to leave.
So, no matter what you offer her now, she won’t be with you.
If a man notices a woman frequently saying this, it means she is ready to leave.
Therefore, men shouldn’t exhaust themselves pondering what she wants; she just doesn’t want what you have to offer.
I’m busy now, we’ll talk later
Men sometimes fail to appreciate what they have.
For instance, when a woman seeks attention, the man might get annoyed, feeling he’s grown-up and has work to do.
But when a woman becomes independent, stops being clingy, and says, “I’m busy now, we’ll talk later,” it signals the beginning of the end for the man.
When a woman no longer needs you, she won’t cling to you. Instead, she’ll often say this phrase.
“I’m busy now, we’ll talk later.”
Maybe she used to chat with you all the time, but now she’s acting like you, not initiating conversations. Over time, she loses love for you, hence repeating this phrase.
Someone who still loves you won’t always be too busy or keep saying this.
If a woman frequently says these things, men should take note; there might be issues in the relationship that can still be resolved.
