Why is it Hard for Midway Couples to Connect? Listen to Three Experienced People Have to Say
“We can never go back.”
In real life, we all face marriage with expectations, but often love leads to sorrow, and not all relationships last forever.
After experiencing a failed marriage, we become more cautious about love, afraid to easily give our hearts. Why is it difficult for midway couples to connect emotionally? Let’s hear from three experienced individuals.
Miss Smith, 32 years old
It’s been three months since my divorce. After the divorce, I met him. Even though I thought we would get along well, we had many conflicts, especially regarding our child. I chose not to have more children out of fear for my child’s safety, causing a major disagreement between us. He saw it as selfish, but my intention was solely for the child. This led to conflicts and eventually a cold war. Later, I realized that remarried couples also have their own hesitations, with children being a significant obstacle.
Miss Johnson, 30 years old
It’s been five years since my divorce. I met caring him after the divorce, but we struggled to have a child due to my health issues. Despite his understanding, I felt guilty. This issue caused tension with his parents, making my relationship with my mother-in-law strained. Initially, our relationship was good, but his parents’ disapproval due to my previous marriage led to his increasingly indifferent attitude.
Miss Brown, 36 years old
In her first relationship, Miss Brown and her husband argued over property issues, leading to a court battle and ultimately divorce. Afterward, she met her current husband, Mr. Liu, who had also experienced the pain of divorce. However, even after marriage, they remained cautious about property matters, living an “each pays their share” life. Miss Brown felt this wasn’t the marriage she wanted, leading to disagreements over trivial matters and growing tension with her husband’s family.
“Some are destined to wait for others, some are destined to be waited for.”
In the face of love, everyone may have their own helplessness. Good love may be encountered but not demanded. They say it’s hard for midway couples to connect, and this is true. In real life, our marriage expectations are shattered by broken marriages, leading to increased guard in relationships. Conflicts arise due to children, parents, and material issues. Failure to resolve peacefully will inevitably lead to discord.
No matter who we marry or are with, we should learn to manage well. Failure to do so will lead to a shattered marriage. “Marriage is a walled city; those outside want to enter, those inside want to leave.” Only those who have truly experienced the highs and lows of marriage can understand the profound meaning of this statement.
Let’s approach marriage with caution, not rushing into or out of it. Marriage is a journey in our lives. Mishandling it will lead to a lifelong regret.
