Why Are More and More Girls Willing to Date Older Men?
A while back, a family went out to eat and witnessed an awkward scene at the restaurant.
A couple at the next table was mistaken by the waiter for a father and daughter while ordering.
Due to this incident, the restaurant owner personally came out to apologize to the couple.
To onlookers, this couple really did look like a father and daughter.
The man appeared to be close to 60 years old, while the woman looked like she was in her early 20s.
However, this is just one example. In today’s society, more and more girls are willing to be with older men.
The phenomenon of older men dating younger women is becoming more prevalent.
Older people tend to be financially secure.
Recently, a netizen altered a famous poem. The original poem goes like this:
“Life is precious, love is even higher. If for the sake of freedom, both can be sacrificed.”
After the alteration, the poem became:
“Life is precious, love is even higher. If for the sake of money, both can be sacrificed.”
It must be said that with the development of society and the improvement of people’s living standards, many individuals have lost their direction due to money.
Many girls, after graduating from college, do not aim to pursue further education or find a good job but instead look to marry a wealthy man.
Many people believe that by marrying a wealthy man, everything will be smooth sailing, living a life of luxury without worries.
During college, a classmate shared a story with us:
A college student, failing many exams during his college years, did not think about finding a job after graduation.
After graduation, this college student met my classmate’s uncle, who was doing well in business in Shenzhen. My classmate’s uncle’s wife was a vice president in a hospital, so their family conditions were excellent.
Upon learning about this family’s exceptional conditions, the female student went out of her way to seduce my classmate’s uncle.
Later on, my classmate’s uncle, thinking of it as a fling, spent a few days with her, only to find out she was pregnant.
My classmate’s uncle, a person of high reputation, could not let this matter tarnish his image. However, the female student threatened, “If you don’t marry me, I will take you to court and ruin your reputation.”
My classmate’s uncle had no choice but to divorce and marry this female college graduate.
Many individuals prioritize money above all else. Even if the other person is not seeking a sugar daddy, many will still try to trap them.
A man’s mindset can captivate a woman.
Some women choose to date older men not for money but because they are enamored by their mindset.
The famous philosopher Kant once said:
“Every woman’s heart hides an idol, resembling her father.”
Women have a father complex, just as some men have a mother complex.
Why do women have a father complex? It’s because fathers usually have mature mindsets, so many women idolize their fathers.
Besides, some women who lacked paternal love growing up also yearn for it as adults.
Women who lacked paternal care growing up have an idealized father figure in mind, which becomes a fixed pattern in their partner selection.
One day, a woman meets a man with a particularly mature mindset. This man may not be very attractive on the outside or wealthy, but the woman sees him as her ideal.
She then considers this man as her lifelong partner.
In today’s society, many women break up with their partners because they find them too immature, meaning their mindsets are not mature enough.
Therefore, in a woman’s eyes, a man with a mature mindset is very attractive.
However, maturity takes time to develop. A man’s mindset only matures after experiencing life’s ups and downs.
It’s impossible for a man in his twenties to have a mature mindset.
Perhaps this is one of the reasons why many women nowadays are willing to date older men.
Sometimes, a person’s mindset determines their level, and it also influences a man’s capacity for love.
Many women no longer believe in love.
“A man can pursue a teenage girl with sweet words, woo a woman in her early twenties with gifts, but to pursue a woman over 25, effort is required.”
Women grow and evolve.
With time shaping women, they may lose their youthful appearance, but their wisdom grows.
There are many temptations and unfairness in society. When we experience these, it’s easy to lose our way and stop believing in love.
Some women, upon breaking up with their boyfriends, will say:
“What is love? I don’t believe in it at all.”
When a person stops believing in love, they may just settle for anyone to marry.
In the end, all love becomes transactional.
Men like to find a beautiful and younger woman, while women choose a man who can provide them with what they desire.
An older man can make a woman content by meeting certain needs.
Some men are experienced and know how to make a woman comfortable in both marital life and daily interactions.
Women and men are different. While a man may have some quirks, a woman may not mind them, even if the man is very experienced in various aspects. Women are willing to marry such men.
The phenomenon of older men dating younger women is becoming more common. Previously, this concept seemed negative, but now it’s seen as mutual benefit or a different perspective. Therefore, we should respect everyone, including those who date older people and those who are dated by older people.
