When a Woman Truly Loves Someone, She Doesn’t Make the First Move—She Waits to Be “Hit On”
There’s a line in the movie “Shrek” where Shrek says:
“If you like someone, you gotta tell them.”
Even though Shrek is an ugly monster and the person he likes is a princess, he’s still brave enough to be with her.
This shows that sometimes, a guy is bolder than a girl, especially in love.
In a TV show, actress Jenny had a crush on the male lead. But she was a girl, so she was too scared to approach him. She would even take a detour if she saw him coming.
One day, they bumped into each other, and their eyes met. In that moment, sparks flew.
Sometimes, women seem like this on the outside, but deep down they crave love. When they really like someone, they want a response from that person.
When a woman truly loves a man, she usually doesn’t make the first move. She waits to be “hit on.”
A Little Trick Up Her Sleeve
I have a really good friend. I used to think she was really innocent, but then I heard about her love story with another guy, and it totally changed my opinion of her.
She really liked this guy, but she never made the first move. She just created a few “chance encounters” where they could say hello to each other. And she would always look amazing, all dolled up and super charming. This got the guy’s attention.
Later, my friend told me:
“If I just went for it, it might have ruined everything. We might not even be friends anymore. So this was the best way to do it.”
The Plan Worked
Her plan worked. They started running into each other all the time. One time, he even asked her out to dinner. They added each other on WeChat, and later they went on trips together, got coffee, and stuff.
I’m always impressed by my friend. She used a little trick to get with this guy. It looks like they just fell in love, but it was actually all planned out by her. She’d been thinking about this for a long time.
Sometimes, when a woman deeply loves someone, she doesn’t make a move because she wants to be a princess. She wants the guy to make the first move. She uses little tricks to lure him in, and then she gets what she wants.
Looking Innocent, But Thinking Big
These kinds of girls seem really innocent and sweet. They seem popular and friendly. But they’re actually thinking a lot. They’re really smart and careful. They don’t want to lose face or mess things up.
When these girls are in love, the guy usually makes the first move. But it’s the girl who falls in love first. These girls are the smartest. It’s better to tempt a guy than to chase him. That way, he’ll appreciate you more.
Needing to Be Valued
When a woman truly loves someone, she wants to feel valued by that person. So even though she loves him deep down, she still wants him to show her extra attention. She wants him to make the first move.
There’s a quote in the book “Men Are From Mars, Women Are From Venus” that says:
“Even though a woman loves a man, she still wants him to make the first move. Sometimes, even if she misses him, she won’t take that step.”
This is just how women are. You see lots of women who have crushes on guys for years, but they never say anything.
They show their feelings in other ways. Maybe they write poems about their love. Maybe they draw pictures of the guy. They do all these things, but they never tell him the truth. They never say what’s on their minds.
The Desire to Be Cherished
This is because women want to feel valued. They love the guy, so they want him to love them back. They want him to make the first move. That’s why they act this way.
Women are more complicated when it comes to love. They don’t just think, “I like this girl, so I’m going to go after her.”
Even if a woman knows the guy doesn’t care about her, or even if he doesn’t notice her, she still hopes and dreams.
That’s what makes women so special in love. They’re full of contradictions, and sometimes they even fool themselves, creating these unrealistic expectations.
The Shyness of Love
When a woman loves someone, she doesn’t make the first move because she’s sometimes shy. In love, if a guy makes the first move, they might have a future together, as long as the woman has feelings for him.
So if you see a girl who gets shy around you, but she never makes the first move, and you love her, don’t be afraid to take a chance. Maybe you two could have something special together. If you don’t, you might miss out on a lifetime of happiness.
Sometimes, when a woman is really shy, it’s because she wants the guy to make the first move. She’s in love, but she doesn’t know how to express her feelings. She’s too afraid to.
Don’t Be a Jerk
You see some guys who get all cocky when they realize a girl has a crush on them. They see her being shy, and they pretend they don’t care. If you do that, you’ll miss out on love.
When a woman truly loves someone, she usually doesn’t make the first move. She waits for the guy to be a little bolder.
On the other hand, if a girl doesn’t love a guy, it’s easy for her to say:
“I love you.”
She doesn’t love him, so she doesn’t feel anything when she says it. She can just say it casually.
The deepest love is hidden in the heart. When someone is about to confess their love, they might get angry or frustrated. They don’t want to easily reveal their heart. That’s why women often speak in a roundabout way.
