When a Woman’s Heart Dies, She Doesn’t Quarrel, But Does These Three Things Silently
You may have heard this saying before, and it’s true: making a scene is dependence, while being polite is being distant. When a woman deeply loves you, she will be willing to rely on you. But when a woman is utterly disappointed, she will slowly drift away from you.
What does marriage feel like? A son once asked his mother this question.
Instead of answering directly, she deleted all the songs from her son’s iPhone, leaving only one on infinite loop until the battery died.
Finally, she said, “That’s what marriage feels like.”
In real life, emotions work the same way. When you truly like someone, you will stick with that person through thick and thin. Even if you have countless options, you will still firmly choose the one you love the most and be willing to tirelessly understand each other.
Marriage has its ups and downs. Everyone’s understanding and experience are different. But marriage should be happy and fulfilling. A family should be a place of love, not a place of reason. When two people argue endlessly over trivial matters in life, the marriage is already lost.
Rome wasn’t built in a day, and disappointment doesn’t happen overnight. In relationships, a woman with a dead heart doesn’t quarrel. Instead, she silently does these three things, and it’s already too late for any reconciliation.
Becoming Cold and Independent
I once saw a scene in a movie where, before the divorce, the wife clung to her husband every moment, unwilling to be apart from him for even a second. She changed a lot for her husband, who initially enjoyed it. But as time passed, it felt like she had changed completely, leading to more arguments and conflicts between them.
The most severe incident was when he laid hands on her, escalating the conflict to the point of divorce.
After the divorce, she lived alone with her child, taking on many jobs. It was then that she realized the importance of earning money and that no man could be relied on forever.
As she started to live independently, she discovered that her life could go on without him. It was at that moment she felt truly liberated.
In the end, when her husband saw how much she had changed and asked to reconcile, even using their child as an excuse, she decisively refused. He accused her of not cherishing the past, but she simply smiled without saying a word.
In relationships, when a woman completely trusts and relies on you, it’s enough to show how important you are to her. When a woman lets go of the past and starts anew, she no longer needs you.
A woman’s coldness and independence are forced out of her. A woman is originally gentle, but it’s only after experiencing hurt that she loses her original self.
Ignoring You
When a woman holds you dear, she will always pay attention to your well-being. If your clothes are not dry, she will nag you to dry them. Even when she’s tired after work, she will prepare dinner and wait for you.
When a woman loves you to the core, she will wholeheartedly treat you well. But when a woman no longer loves you, she will ignore you.
Haruki Murakami once said, “If I love you and you happen to love me too, when your hair is messy, I will gently help you fix it, lingering a few seconds longer. But if I love you and you don’t love me, when your hair is messy, I will just casually tell you about it. This is probably the purest form of love. If we love each other, we’ll grow old together. If we miss the chance, we’ll wish each other well.”
In relationships, love should be pure from the start. If it’s mixed with too many impurities, the emotions lose their purity, and attitudes change.
No Tears, No Tantrums
As the saying goes, a woman argues by crying, making a scene, or even threatening suicide.
Some say that women are troublesome creatures, and it’s true. When a woman loves you, it can be troublesome because all her temper and little quirks are directed at you. Sometimes when she is upset with you, it’s a way of being spoiled. So, when you comfort her, she can feel your love and hold you even tighter.
Women are sensitive beings. A woman deeply understands whether a man loves her or not. Only when a man openly favors her, she dares to love a man openly.
Not shedding tears or making a fuss is the result when a woman is utterly disappointed because she knows that even if she is distressed, it’s meaningless when a man doesn’t love her. So, she chooses silence.
When a woman no longer pins her hopes on a man, she no longer expects anything from him. When a woman gives up hope, all that’s left is silence, and any unnecessary explanations seem powerless.
So, I hope everyone cherishes love and doesn’t disappoint the ones who love them and the ones they love.
