When a Woman Is “Easygoing” in a Relationship, She Won’t Be “Reserved” at These 3 Times
“Habit is everything, even in love,” said W.V. Quine.
A person’s character and their usual way of life are formed over a long time. It’s hard to change them quickly. Even for love, it’s difficult to change. These habits will often carry over into a relationship.
For example, some people are naturally competitive. In love, they become bossy. They like to control their partner and the direction of the relationship. Some people are sensitive and suspicious. Even if their partner loves them, they can’t fully trust them. They don’t feel completely secure in the relationship.
In short, a person’s character affects their entire relationship.
That’s why before starting a relationship, we should learn about the other person’s character and their personality. Only after understanding them can we make the right choice. Otherwise, if we start a relationship without knowing enough, we’ll have to face the consequences of the unknown.
“Love is a platform where all sorts of people gather,” said Gilbert.
On this platform of love, some people take relationships seriously. Some only think about their own interests. Some are naturally “easygoing,” and they approach love the same way.
When we love someone, we naturally hope they feel the same way. Otherwise, even if we like them a lot, we might have to give up the relationship because they’re too “easygoing.”
In a relationship, a woman who is “easygoing” won’t be “reserved” at these three times. Men need to understand this.
When a Man Spends Money on Her
For a woman, if she truly wants to develop a relationship, she’ll naturally try to make a good impression on the man. She wants him to know she’s worth dating. This kind of relationship has a future.
When they’re dating, she’ll be more reserved. She’ll often think about the man. Especially when he spends money on her, she’ll ask him to save money. She’ll also say she doesn’t need anything, which is very sensible. This is because she wants him to save money and plan for their future.
But if a woman is naturally “easygoing,” she won’t think about these things. She won’t think about their future. She just wants to enjoy the moment.
When a man spends money on her, she’ll happily accept it. She might even ask him to buy her gifts or take her places.
This kind of behavior is obviously too “easygoing.” If the man doesn’t realize this, he’s just blinded by love.
When She Envies Others
In the world of women, there’s always some vanity. But some women can control their vanity. They don’t show it much, or they use their own abilities to satisfy their vanity.
But some women’s vanity is greater than their abilities. They can’t control themselves. They rely on others to satisfy their vanity.
A woman who is naturally “easygoing” will have a lot of vanity. She’ll also ask the man to satisfy her.
When she sees that a friend bought something nice, or went somewhere cool, she’ll want to compete. She wants to show off on social media.
If she doesn’t have the ability, she’ll ask the man to satisfy her without any reservations.
If he doesn’t want to, she’ll say he doesn’t love her. Even if he agrees, she’ll ask for more next time.
When She’s Bullied
“Mature love, respect, and loyalty are not easily expressed. Its voice is low. It is humble, yielding, and hidden. It waits and waits,” said Charles Dickens.
But if a woman is naturally “easygoing,” she’ll be more selfish in her relationships. She’ll only think about her own happiness, not the man’s feelings.
A woman with a sincere heart will endure minor bullying. She won’t tell the man about it. Even if she can’t stand it and tells the man, she just wants his comfort. She won’t ask him to fight back.
But for women who are “easygoing,” they won’t be reserved at these times. They’ll complain, and they’ll want the man to get revenge for them. They don’t care about the man’s feelings. They don’t worry about whether he’ll get hurt.
“In love, deliberate falsehood is more charming than truth, and that is why many men lavish their money on clever female deceivers,” said Honoré de Balzac.
Sometimes men don’t see this “easygoing” side of women because they’ve given their hearts. And women know some love tricks. So they can trap the man.
But this unbalanced relationship is easy to break once the man regains his senses.
So, when it comes to love, we should be more sincere.
As Anton Makarenko said, “Learn to love, learn to understand love, learn to be a happy person—that means learning to respect yourself, learning the virtues of humanity.”
