When a Man is Ready to Leave You, He Will Show “No Emotion” in These Three Situations
Do you still remember when we talked about men with others, and many people would say this sentence:
“When a man loves you, he loves you deeply, but when he wants to leave you, he becomes extremely heartless.”
In the TV series “The First Half of My Life,” Chen Junsheng initially loved Luo Zijun very much, and the two started dating in college, eventually getting married.
After getting married, Luo Zijun and Chen Junsheng had a very happy family, with a child and two elderly people at home, Chen Junsheng working outside, and Luo Zijun taking care of the family.
Chen Junsheng handed all his money over to Luo Zijun, who could buy whatever she wanted, making her seem like a wealthy wife in others’ eyes, with Chen Junsheng treating her like a treasure.
However, after Chen Junsheng got together with Lingling, his attitude towards Luo Zijun changed, especially when their marriage reached a breaking point, making Luo Zijun feel extremely helpless.
Later, Chen Junsheng insisted on divorcing Luo Zijun, and at that time, Luo Zijun said:
“You make me feel like you’re not the Chen Junsheng I knew, your heartlessness makes me feel cold, and I suddenly feel like you’ve become a different person.”
Men love a woman deeply, but when they change their faces, they won’t hesitate; when a man is ready to leave you, he will show no emotion in these three situations.
Heartlessness during a breakup
Usually, when a man pursues a woman, he shows extraordinary enthusiasm, especially when he hasn’t gotten her yet, and would even pick stars from the sky for her.
Teacher Tu said:
“Look at how a man treats you after marriage, and you’ll know what kind of person he is.”
Look at how a woman looks after taking off her makeup; look at how a man treats you after marriage. This shows that sometimes, people’s usual performances can’t be seen, and some people are good at pretending, only to reveal their true selves after marriage.
In fact, to see what a man is like, besides looking at how he treats you after marriage, you can also look at his attitude during a breakup.
Some men may have loved you before, but during a breakup, they can be extremely heartless, indicating that they’ve already prepared to leave you.
In fact, when a woman says she wants a divorce or breakup, it’s often just a verbal threat, hoping her boyfriend or husband will comfort her, but if a man says he wants a breakup, it means he’s already prepared to leave.
Some men can be extremely heartless when breaking up, making the woman feel like she’s never known this man before. Maybe the man was very good to the woman before, but during the breakup, he becomes a different person.
When a man becomes extremely heartless during a breakup, it’s time for the woman to stop being humble, because there’s no possibility of reconciliation.
Heartlessness when you apologize
If a man feels you’ve made a mistake, and he wants to break up with you, no matter how you apologize, it’s useless, indicating that you’re no longer important in his heart.
If a man truly loves you, seeing you apologize, even begging him, he’ll feel sorry for you and forgive you, and might even apologize to you.
However, if a man sees you make a small mistake and grabs onto it, it’s not because of the severity of your mistake, but because he’s looking for an excuse to break up with you.
The key issue isn’t that you made a mistake, but that the man is looking for an excuse to leave you.
If a man shows heartlessness when you apologize, it means he’s already given up on you in his heart, and that’s why he’s showing this kind of attitude.
Someone who truly cares about you will never show this kind of attitude, as they’ll understand your inner pain and sympathize with you because of their love for you.
Only those who are determined to leave you will deliberately hurt you, making you feel heartbroken and helpless, and then choose to leave.
If someone truly wants to be with you, they won’t be so heartless when you apologize, leaving you feeling alone and helpless.
When someone shows heartlessness in the face of your apology, it means they’ve already given up on you.
Heartlessness when you encounter difficulties
When you encounter difficulties, if a man loves you, he’ll help you, but if he doesn’t love you, he won’t help.
In fact, when a man truly loves a woman, he’ll stand by her side as soon as she encounters a problem.
It’s because if someone truly loves a woman, they feel that making sacrifices for her is an achievement and are willing to do things for her.
But if someone no longer loves the woman, they’ll feel it’s difficult to make sacrifices for her, and when she encounters difficulties, they might even show heartlessness and refuse to help.
I have a friend who was with her boyfriend, and the boyfriend would do everything for my friend, even carrying her to the hospital when she hurt her ankle. The boyfriend was very good to my friend, making her very happy every day.
Later, when the boyfriend wanted to break up with my friend, she got drunk at a bar, got hurt, and broke her arm, but when I told her boyfriend about it, he showed no concern, and when my friend was in the hospital, he didn’t even visit her once, and eventually, they broke up.
So when you encounter difficulties, if the other person shows heartlessness, it means they’ve already changed their heart, and you two might be heading for a breakup.
When a man is ready to leave you, he’ll show heartlessness, making you feel like you don’t know this man at all.
So, as a woman, you must make yourself better, don’t just rely on a man, because sometimes men are unreliable, and their hearts can change easily.
