“What Is It Like for Men to Marry a Beautiful Wife?” Three Married Men Speak Their Minds

A beautiful woman in a man’s eyes is captivating in every move. For men, marrying a beautiful woman is a lifelong dream. Men are visual creatures, especially when it comes to seeing a beauty, they can’t take their eyes off. Even when they have a partner by their side, they don’t hesitate to admire others. This behavior may upset their partners, but they do not care.

Ancient poets were able to vividly describe the beauty of women. The allure of a beautiful woman on men is immense. Men who marry attractive wives become objects of envy for other men.

So, what is it like for these men who have married beautiful women?

Mr. Johnson, 32 years old, married for 6 years

Her sweet smile, her beautiful eyes.

What I fear the most now is seeing my wife smiling at others. I always feel she has ulterior motives. The way other men look at her is downright disrespectful, which worries me a lot. Although my wife may not actively betray me, it doesn’t mean others won’t try to flirt with her.

I remember when we used to go to nightclubs with friends. One night, a group of troublemakers harassed us after we came out from singing. If our friends hadn’t been with us that night, who knows what could have happened.

Since then, we haven’t gone to nightclubs, losing out on a lot of fun. Spending too much time together can lead to boredom.

I have to work and can’t always watch over her. I’m afraid she might encounter unpleasant situations at work, so I don’t let her work to avoid accidents.

The more I do this, the more agitated I get when we’re out together and she smiles at someone, or when other men ogle at her. I instantly get furious and struggle to control my emotions.

Being overly protective isn’t a good thing. It severely affects our relationship, and I have to worry constantly about her being harassed by strangers. This is not a good situation for me.

If I could, I would rather not marry such a good-looking woman. It’s not about lacking confidence, but the constant fear of someone disrupting our harmony and happiness is too distressing.

Mr. Smith, 37 years old, married for 10 years

My deep affection once won the heart of the boss’s beloved daughter. I felt so lucky to have such a good thing happen to me. Although I am competent at work, everything became my wife’s credit after we got married.

I often hear people gossiping and backbiting behind my back. Sometimes I want to confront them, but what’s the point? Some even question why my average-looking self could win my wife’s heart. There are doubts and even slander everywhere.

I’ve gotten used to it over the years. My wife is understanding and always advises me not to listen to those voices but to focus on my career and use my abilities to silence the rumors.

But I know rumors can never be completely silenced. The only way to shut them up is by achieving greater success in my career, making them believe I deserve such a beautiful wife.

After years of hard work, I finally achieved success. Now, my wife is no longer the boss’s daughter but the wife of the CEO. Our company and my father-in-law’s company have become the best partners.

There have been many rumors over the years, and I cared but never feared. When you are strong enough, there won’t be as many voices trying to drown out your talents and capabilities. I am grateful to have married such a beautiful wife, and I thank her for her loyalty.

Mr. Brown, 34 years old, married for 6 years

My wife is one of those good-looking women—tall and slender, almost as tall as me. When we go out together, my once decent appearance pales in comparison.

At the beginning of our relationship, she fueled all my vanity. I used to take her to parties, and when others praised her beauty, I felt proud.

But after marriage, she stayed at home full-time, taking good care of herself, while the burden on me increased. To provide a better life for my family, I often work overtime and stay up late, which has aged me significantly over the years.

Many friends advised me to rest more and not work so hard. The stress from overwork and business anxiety led to hair loss. Walking beside my wife, I felt others’ judgmental gazes, which made me feel inferior.

Once, during a road trip, a relative asked if she was my daughter. My wife replied yes, and he asked, “Did you have a child at 18?” Then he glanced at me without saying a word.

I felt even more heartbroken and embarrassed. Since then, I don’t like going out with my wife or allowing her to dress up or wear makeup. I even forbid her from dressing too youthfully to highlight the age difference between us.

Sometimes I feel like there’s something wrong with me. At an age where I have elderly parents and young kids, with a beautiful and pampered wife, I dare not lose my job or grow old. I fear that if I become useless one day, she will leave me. Marrying a beautiful wife isn’t all sunshine and rainbows. I live in agony now, and it’s really heartbreaking.

Many think that marrying a beautiful wife is the happiest thing for a man. But after marriage, there are many bothersome things. It seems that marrying a beautiful wife requires men to work harder to maintain their charm and prevent others from taking their wives away.

Sometimes, things that seem beautiful on the surface may not be so. Relationships especially require more effort than imagined to stay together happily.

Do you think marrying a beautiful woman is a happy thing?