Three Weaknesses of Men, Women Should Avoid Touching, Men Will Be Devoted

Chernyshevsky said, “The meaning of love is to help each other improve, while also improving oneself.”

In love, women tend to be more emotional, so they often can keep a clear mind in love.

That’s why some people say women have zero IQ in love.

When a woman’s IQ is zero in love, it means not only can she be deceived by men, but sometimes it can also be understood as: in love, a woman may do things that a man cannot understand, and because of these things, the man’s love for the woman will diminish.

No matter what stage of love, if two people grow together, then this love will benefit both greatly.

When you help someone improve while also improving yourself, that is the best model of love.

Women should know that men also have their weaknesses and difficulties.

A good woman knows how to help a man overcome these weaknesses, helping the man improve while also improving herself.

In love, women should be understanding and have a heart that can comprehend men.

Men also have weaknesses, and these weaknesses are what women should avoid touching, not crossing the line with men.

As the saying goes, “To retreat is to broaden the sea and sky.”

When a woman learns to understand a man, the man will treat the woman well.

Parents

Many people consider their mothers as their weak spot, especially when their mothers’ health deteriorates.

In many cases, if parents do not like a man’s girlfriend, it’s difficult for the man to make the right choice. If you choose your parents, your girlfriend will think you are wrong, and if you choose your girlfriend, your parents will think you are wrong.

So, as a man’s partner, you must understand that even if you don’t like his parents, you shouldn’t ruin the relationship with them. This would put the man in a difficult position between you and his parents.

Many women like to test their men, sometimes saying things like, “If both your mom and I fell into the water, who would you save first?”

This is a low-level question. While women may think the man should choose himself because he is the most important, they should also consider, if one day their boyfriend or husband and their mother both fell into the water, who would they save first?

Family and love cannot be compared; they are two different kinds of emotions. As a woman, you must not cross a man’s line, not hurting his parents to make him love you more or making him do things that would upset his parents.

Many men want to marry a virtuous wife, someone both they and their parents like, who can be a good helper at home.

Love alone is not enough in life. Even if you love someone deeply, if that person keeps challenging your limits, you will grow tired.

Children

Children are the biggest weakness in a person’s life.

When a child is born, the pressure on the parents increases. Maybe before, the couple didn’t have children and were just living their lives together.

But when this little life comes into the world, their lives change. They have to provide many things for the child and plan for their future.

After my daughter got married and had a child, she felt her husband cared less for her because he focused on their child.

Many women get angry with their husbands for this, but it’s unnecessary.

He loves the child because it’s the child of both of you. Put yourself in his shoes; if you don’t love your man, you might not be very fond of the child you have together.

Once, a man in the neighboring house made his wife angry, and without a word, she dropped their child from the balcony.

The man was devastated, they divorced, and the child was lost.

A family shattered because of a woman’s momentary anger. Such incidents are truly tragic.

Women should understand that if you have a child together, both of you should protect and care for the child.

Don’t involve the child in your disagreements; it’s not good for the family.

Past Loves

Everyone has had a youthful love; everyone has had a deep and unforgettable love.

Perhaps the youthful love never started, perhaps the deep love had no ending, but they become a part of our lives, impossible to erase.

Years later, we may forget what we did with them, or the specifics of their appearance, but the feeling remains vivid, impossible to erase.

The worst thing that can happen between spouses is bringing up old issues. Let the past be the past; digging up these matters will only affect the relationship, with no positive outcome.

Many women can’t accept a man’s past, but men can’t change their past.

Some things in the past cannot be changed. If you keep dwelling on them, it will only change your lives.

If women stop minding about the past, a man’s history might become just a story, disappearing forever.

But if women keep mentioning a man’s past, he will get annoyed, and it will affect their lives.

Some past events may be like thorns in a man’s heart, something he never wants to face.

When a woman brings these up, she exposes the man’s scars.

So, smart women know that to make a man love them more, they should stop bringing up his past and make him completely forget it.

Men have their weaknesses too, and women shouldn’t casually touch them.

Just as women don’t want men to touch their weak spots, hearts are all vulnerable, and in love, one must learn to empathize.

Be a woman with independent thoughts, but sometimes be understanding; this way, men will love you more.