Three Ways to Tell If a Man is Sincere in a Relationship
Relationships are something that can’t be forced. While it’s nice when a playboy settles down, who can guarantee that he will be completely devoted to you?
How many stages of life does one have? To entrust your entire life and happiness to a man, you should first determine if he truly loves you and if he’s worth your investment.
If a man truly wants you to be devoted to him, he will show it through his actions. Daily care, attention to details, occasional surprises, and romance can easily make a woman believe in love and get deeply involved in the relationship.
However, you may not know if his actions are genuine or if he treats everyone the same. Is he sincere about his feelings for you? To find out, focus on these three aspects.
Will he do things that hurt you?
If he truly cares about you, he won’t just offer insincere comfort after hurting you. He will prevent things that cause you pain from happening in the first place.
Everyone desires a perfect love story, like a fairy tale. A man who genuinely loves you will not bear to see you sad. Everything he does should be aimed at making you happy.
Take my colleague, Sarah, for example. She is beautiful and has a great personality. One would think she wouldn’t have any relationship issues. However, she often complains to me about her boyfriend, whom she thinks is like central air conditioning.
He is handsome and claims to be a gentleman, showing extra care to women. He often helps women move things and assists them with work.
If he were single, this behavior might be considered caring. But his current actions often make Sarah feel insecure. Despite this, his sweet words always make it hard for Sarah to leave him. Women tend to hold on until they reach a breaking point.
Love comes from the heart. A woman should know that if a man claims to love her but continues to hurt her, then his love isn’t genuine.
Will he respect your decisions and way of life?
A man who truly loves a woman will not belittle her but rather respect her. In a relationship, imbalance in power will lead to an unhappy ending.
A good relationship should be built on mutual respect and equality.
In the TV series, Sarah faces conflicts with her husband, who is arrogant and doesn’t trust her decisions. He believes Sarah should just be a housewife and doesn’t bother to understand her thoughts. Their marriage is bound to have cracks if a man cannot respect a woman.
If a man doesn’t respect a woman, he won’t try to understand her thoughts. A woman doesn’t want a life like that.
Will he spend money on you willingly?
Men in relationships often overlook small details and are quite casual. However, for most modern men, the best way to show love to a woman is by giving their best to her. A man who truly loves you will not hesitate to spend money on you.
Men are often rational, while women are emotional. If a man doesn’t love you, he will weigh the pros and cons of spending on you. He knows what he’s doing.
But a man who loves you will lower his own standards to satisfy you.
Money is essential in love, not necessarily millions, but the willingness of a man to spend on you. Whether he is an average worker giving you his entire salary or a wealthy man showering you with money, it’s important to assess the situation.
If a man hesitates to spend on you, how can he plan a future with you? Women should open their eyes and recognize those who truly love them.
