Those Who Get Hurt in Love Are Often Clueless About These Three Principles, Don’t Be Naive
Only selfless love is true.
Perhaps everyone has their own scars when facing love, and some people get hurt in love because they don’t know how to cherish happiness. Many people get love but don’t appreciate it, and many others envy those who have it. This is the paradox of love.
Pingping and her boyfriend had been dating for two years, introduced by friends. At first, the guy treated Pingping very well, showing great care for her, which touched her heart.
As they spent more time together, Pingping gave her all, trying to satisfy the guy’s every need.
However, as time went by, Pingping became more and more submissive in the relationship. After two years, she was still disrespected. One night, her boyfriend didn’t come home, and when Pingping called, he didn’t answer. She got angry and confronted him when he returned, but he just blamed her and said, “Let’s break up, I’ve had enough of you.” Pingping was devastated, unable to accept the breakup. She even wanted to beg him to come back, but it was all in vain.
In reality, many people have been hurt, but I want to say that getting hurt in love is often because we’ve done something wrong.
Don’t Cheat on Someone Who Loves You
Fate brings us together, but it’s hard to find someone who truly cares about us. Don’t cheat on someone who genuinely loves you, and don’t hurt someone who loves you. If you do, you’ll regret it when they’re gone.
When someone loves you, it’s a blessing, but not everyone is so lucky. Cheating is a sign of disrespect, and when you cheat repeatedly, the other person will eventually lose trust. When someone genuinely cares about you, you should also be sincere, because love is about mutual exchange.
Don’t cheat on someone who loves you, or you’ll lose them forever.
Let Go and Move On
Do you still love him? Everyone has someone they can’t forget, but sometimes you just have to let go. When two people are in love, they should cherish each other. When it’s over, just let it go and move on.
Those who leave are just passersby. Some people are only meant to be with us for a short time. When they leave, be grateful for the time you had together and move on. Don’t hold grudges, and wish each other well.
For some people, breaking up might be the best choice. Even if you can’t be lovers, you can still be friends. Let go of the past and look forward.
Love Is Mutual
Good love is hard to find, and it’s a two-way street. If one person gives their all, but the other doesn’t, the love will eventually fade. There’s a saying that goes, “When I long to see you, it’s only meaningful if you long to see me too.”
Love is mutual, and it requires two people to work together. In the process of love, if one person gives up, it will eventually fail. Don’t take the other person’s love for granted, or your relationship will eventually fall apart.
Find someone who truly loves you, and don’t forget to love them back. That’s the purest form of love.
Love is mutual, and it’s not about hurting others or getting hurt. When you’re in a relationship, you need to reflect on your actions, because love requires two people to work together. When you understand this, you’ll be able to harvest more.
As Han Han once said, “Liking is indulgent, but loving is self-controlled.”
In this world, there’s no one who hasn’t been hurt. Many people get hurt in love because they don’t understand these three principles. Often, we can’t let go because we’re just fooling ourselves.
