The Impact of First Love on a Boy’s Future Relationships
Which Girlfriend Is Least Likely to Break Up with a Boy?
Today, my mood is as foggy as the weather!
First, I’m extremely tired because of a lot of recent events.
And then, sigh, I can’t help but feel some regret about certain things, but I’m powerless to change it. All I can do is keep moving forward.
This afternoon, a girl asked me a question: Which girlfriend is least likely to break up with a boy?
Actually, what I really want to ask is, which boyfriend is least likely to break up with a girl!
It’s really painful when two people in love eventually part ways.
I once read a story:
A girl met her first love, who was already another woman’s husband.
He was very attentive to his wife, making sure she wore her seatbelt when driving, keeping track of her menstrual cycle on his phone, holding her shoulder when crossing the street, waiting with an umbrella in the rain, making chicken soup for her, pulling out her chair at the dinner table, and even keeping a flashlight by the bed in case she couldn’t see at night… This man had maturity in his eyes and was no longer the reckless and willful boy the girl had known before.
But in the girl’s memory, everything the boy did seemed familiar.
Because she once got caught in the rain, argued with the boy in a downpour, and asked why he didn’t come to pick her up;
She was afraid of the dark, and could only sleep peacefully if the boy called her when she was alone;
She rolled around in pain during her period and directed the boy to make her ginger soup;
Even the person who once made chicken soup was her. That year, she said to the boy, “Do you want me to teach you how to cook?” The boy said, “No, as long as you can cook, that’s enough, because we’ll always be together.”
Unfortunately, they didn’t end up together in the end.
All the experiences and thoughtfulness the boy has accumulated now were things the girl once taught him. Unfortunately, he is now with someone else.
They say the order of appearance in a relationship is crucial. The person who gets you drunk is destined not to be able to take you home.
Compared to the depth of love, the timing of love often determines whether you can go the distance.
I once asked a female friend, what does being a boy’s first love mean to you?
Her answer was like this: First love sounds wonderful, but for a girl, it’s just a brief appearance in the other person’s life, teaching them a lesson and then leaving. I don’t want to use my best love and youth to teach him how to cherish the next person.
Boys who are just discovering love are mostly flamboyant and romantic, they will sincerely write love letters and prepare big surprises for you; at the same time, they are also naive and ignorant, blushing when they say they love you and not knowing where to put their hands when they kiss for the first time.
They don’t understand the intricacies of relationships, but they have a heart that loves you loudly and clearly.
But in love, just liking someone is not enough.
They understand romance, but don’t care much for stability;
They have an adorable childish side, but are not good at taking care of others;
They may make grand promises, but still can’t accompany you through the rest of your life.
For many boys, first love is a beautiful time that will eventually fade away.
In addition to pure affection, what is needed in a relationship—tenderness, maturity, thoughtfulness—they have not yet mastered.
So, which girlfriend is most suitable for a boy?
Definitely not the first love, he is sincere, but he might be immature.
He might say a lot of sweet nothings, make many promises, but in the end, they all turn into bubbles.
Meeting too early can only teach him to grow up by leaving.
The second girlfriend is also not suitable, he is youthful, but he may not be able to give you a future.
He may already understand how relationships work, but he is very uncertain about the future.
He wants to be with you forever, but he can’t resist time, distance, and reality.
There is also a risk with the third girlfriend, he is mature, but he may also be worldly-wise.
After an argument, he no longer reasons with you, but immediately apologizes and buys you gifts to surprise you.
He says he wants to be with you for a lifetime, but his career has just started to take off, and he always tells you, “Just wait a little longer!”
Only the fourth girlfriend is suitable, he is considerate, but he may also have his own tricks.
If you look at something more than three times, the next day he will buy it for you.
One day, he will take the initiative to kneel in front of you with a diamond ring.
We will meet many people in our lives, some will pass by in a hurry, some will accompany you through a brief journey in your youth, but only one will accompany you through the rest of your life.
In love, “the predecessors plant the trees, and the later generations enjoy the shade.”
Writing this, there’s a tinge of sadness in my heart. Maybe I’m the type who has planted many trees for others, but still haven’t found my own tree.
Sometimes it’s impossible not to have regrets, but so what? Keep moving forward!
Sigh! What’s the point of asking what love is? It just makes people want to say: It’s all nonsense, forget it!
Okay, I couldn’t help but curse again. In the end, I just want to tell you that all theories and practices have deviations.
So, don’t dwell on the past, don’t hesitate or panic, if you meet someone you like, just love them, and walking hand in hand to the end is the most suitable choice.
