The Heartbreak of a Bride: The Words from the Groom’s Relative at the Wedding Ruined My Marriage

Every family has its own difficult scripture to recite, and in real life, we will encounter various problems and contradictions. Marriage is not just a matter between two people, but between two families. The phrase “men get married, women get married” is a very common phenomenon in real life. However, for a woman, marriage is a lifelong choice, and marrying the right person is happiness, while marrying the wrong person can only be torture.

Recently, a fan named Rongrong sent me a letter, and here is the content:

I have been in love with him for three years, and we met through friends.

Before I met him, I had a previous relationship, but it ended due to disagreements over the dowry.

When we first started dating, I directly brought up the topic of the dowry, and he didn’t refuse. He promised to give me the best, which made me feel that this man was reliable.

After three years, we smoothly entered the marriage hall. Our side required a dowry of 120,000 yuan plus a house, but since his family already had a house, we didn’t need to worry about the house.

They didn’t hesitate to give us the 120,000 yuan, and I was very grateful to my parents for their understanding. They were able to return the 120,000 yuan as my dowry.

I knew my parents were doing it for my own good, and since his family was from a distant place, my parents didn’t want me to suffer.

On the wedding day, we had to get up early to prepare. When I left my parents, I felt a pang of sadness in my heart because I was leaving one city for another, which made me feel uneasy.

After the wedding ceremony, we gave each other promises, but during the toast, one of the groom’s relatives said something that made me regret it. He said, “12,000 yuan to marry a daughter-in-law, I don’t know if we can get a grandson from the Wang family. I hope the 12,000 yuan isn’t wasted.”

At the time, I felt very embarrassed, but later, I questioned him privately, and he told me that he had a physical condition that made it difficult for him to have children. We could only rely on fate after marriage.

I felt that my emotions had been greatly deceived. A month after the wedding, I seriously thought about it and chose to divorce.

After the divorce, many friends said I was too impulsive, but I think honesty is the bottom line in a marriage. If someone can’t even be honest, I think such a marriage is just a deception.

When facing marriage, everyone will have their own choices. Now, thinking carefully, it’s indeed true that a good marriage requires the joint efforts of two people. Each person should have their own bottom line in marriage, and only then can they be happier.

Especially for a woman, choosing a marriage is choosing a life, so one should be more cautious before marriage.

The Attitude of the Groom’s Family

Shakespeare once said, “Love makes the coward brave, but it also makes the brave cowardly.”

Marriage life is more related to the happiness of two families. The groom’s family’s attitude towards the bride’s family is crucial. For a woman, what they want to see is a man’s attitude towards them.

The respect of the groom’s family towards the bride’s family is also very important. In today’s society, there are many families that quarrel due to the dowry and other reasons. If the groom’s family is too casual towards the bride’s family, the marriage will have many problems.

The Responsibility and Sense of Duty of a Man

Plato once said, “It is a beautiful thing to love someone for their virtues.”

Before and after marriage, many men have two faces. For a man, when they truly love a woman, they will take responsibility. A man’s sense of responsibility is especially important, and if they don’t have it, even if they get married, they won’t be happy.

Molière once said, “Love is a full life, just like a full cup of wine.”

Love is indeed beautiful, but before marriage, women should also be cautious. If they meet the right person, it can be a happy thing, but if they meet the wrong person, it will only hurt themselves.

Good love is not about one person sacrificing, but about being able to truly feel the other person’s love for you. If the other person intentionally deceives or hides things from you, the emotions between you will not last long.

Good love requires the joint efforts of two people, not just one person’s willingness. When facing marriage, we should also be more cautious and not sacrifice our happiness for someone else.

Temporary sweet talk is nice to hear, but lifelong love is the most stable happiness.