The Art of Dealing with Men: Delayed Satisfaction
Bing, 24, has been married for over three years. Despite her young age, she has a deep understanding of how to maintain a happy marriage.
After three years of marriage, Bing has continued to pursue her career, earning her husband’s respect. When friends asked her the secret to her happy marriage, Bing smiled and said, “There’s no secret. As a woman, you should never be too submissive to men. You should have your own opinions and not be swayed by what men say. Only then will men truly love you.”
In reality, many women are too submissive in love, and that’s why they fail to make men truly love them.
Women who understand how to delay satisfaction in men will often understand the following points.
Love Requires Reason
Zhang Ailing once said, “Use absolute reason and a clear head to suppress the love and pain in your heart.”
On the path of love, everyone will experience ups and downs. No relationship is as smooth as we imagine, so when facing love, the only thing you can do is to become more rational. This way, even if the other person leaves you, you can still face life bravely.
Love requires reason, and you must also learn to be brave. You can bravely pursue love, but don’t hurt yourself for a relationship. Only when you treat love rationally will your efforts become more meaningful.
When choosing love, adding a touch of reason will give you more hope for the future. When you can love, adding loyalty will bring you more happiness. Love is a combination of reason and emotion, and only when you understand how to face love will you truly experience the ups and downs of life.
We can’t deny that love is often emotional, but only when love is combined with reason can it last longer.
Zhang Ailing also said, “If your heart is not moved, the wind will not blow. If you are not hurt, the years will be peaceful.”
Sometimes, you get hurt in a relationship because you sacrifice too much. When you treat love more rationally, you can make the relationship more solid.
As a woman, don’t sacrifice too much for love. Love rationally, and you will receive more love.
Love is about the Long Haul
Zhang Ailing once said, “Good love is not about being swept off your feet at once, but about being slowly pampered over time.” In reality, true love requires time to develop.
If a relationship develops too quickly, it will also fade quickly. Good love is about the long haul, and those who are willing to spend time with you are the ones who truly love you. True love has its ups and downs, and only after experiencing the test of time will you discover what kind of person you need.
If a relationship doesn’t undergo the test of time, even if the two of you are together, you won’t gain happiness.
Good love requires both parties to work together. If you don’t know how to cultivate love in a relationship, the final result will be that your love will come to an end.
In reality, as a woman, don’t accept a man too quickly. If his love for you is just sweet talk, then that love is meaningless to you.
Smart women often use time to test a man, and only then can they prove a man’s sincerity.
Loving Yourself is Important
Zhang Ailing once said, “If he truly loves you, you can be any kind of woman.”
In reality, many women become overly dependent on men after falling in love. They fear that they are not good enough, and fear that the other person will abandon them. But in reality, there is no one who is perfect. If someone truly loves you, even if they know your imperfections, they will still unconditionally love you.
As a woman, you shouldn’t be too dependent on a man in the world of love. If you are too dependent on a man, his love for you will gradually decrease, just like Yang Jiang once said, “If he doesn’t love you enough, you need to become a complete woman.”
If a man’s demands for you keep increasing, then he must be selfish.
So, as a woman, you should always raise your own value in front of men. Only then will you gain more respect from them. If you don’t know how to love yourself and only know how to sacrifice, then his love for you will gradually decrease.
Delayed satisfaction in men actually means that women should learn to love themselves while loving others. If you always sacrifice and lower your principles and bottom line, then in the end, the man will not cherish you.
