Singles

Why Are You Still Single? 5 Reasons for Being Single

Many people say they’ve been trying for a long time but can’t seem to get out of being single. They’re confused about the reasons. Today, I want to list some common reasons among women for being single. There are many reasons for being single, and each person’s reasons are different. Often, we think it’s just a matter of not finding the right person, but there are often deeper reasons behind it.

November 14, 2024 4 min read

This Kind of State is the Best For Women When They are Single

The story begins with a friend sending me a message, saying: “There’s a friend of mine who perfectly fits the state I described.” Her friend, born in 1986, has always been pursued and has also pursued men. She has had several relationships, with the youngest being born in 1991. Many of them even introduced her to their parents. Some were wealthy, had good temperaments, and were devoted to her. She knows exactly what she wants in life. Marriage is just a phase in her life. With a broad perspective, she can handle every phase with ease and doesn’t get worked up over the gains and losses of each phase. She wants the whole world and isn’t concerned about small gains and losses.

October 14, 2024 3 min read

Older Single Women Who Are Unwilling to Get Married, There Is Only One Reason

I once saw a saying online: “Not dating doesn’t mean no one is interested, it just means the right one hasn’t come yet, so I should wait cleanly and openly for him to appear.” I resonated with this saying because those who treat relationships casually are the ones most serious about them. Often, not dating doesn’t mean we have no options, but rather we are waiting for that unique person.

June 12, 2024 4 min read

Three Reasons You’re Still Single

Many single women, after being alone for a long time, gradually get used to the solitude and start thinking that being alone is not bad at all—free and carefree. However, when it’s quiet at night, they know that these are just excuses to comfort themselves. We’ve identified three types of single women. Which one are you? I’m waiting for fate to happen. Some girls are passive. Whether they meet someone they like or someone who likes them, if they don’t end up together, they console themselves by saying, “My time hasn’t come yet. I haven’t met my other half.” This is indeed a good reason to comfort oneself. Love requires effort from both sides—whether it’s making an effort to attract or pursue, you need to make an effort to bear fruit with your significant other.

August 15, 2023 2 min read