Security

A 25-Year-Old Girl Tells You: Is Her Marriage Happy by Marrying a 40-Year-Old Man?

“May-December romance” has always been a topic of discussion for many young girls. However, it is often not accepted by many parents who wonder why their daughters would choose a man much older than them but similar in age to themselves. In today’s society, the love between older men and younger women is quite popular. The main reason is that the way older men show affection can make many young girls feel secure and cared for.

February 12, 2025 5 min read

Feeling Secure and Confident: It Comes From Being Irreplaceable

In a relationship, the most direct and effective way to feel secure, confident, and empowered is to make yourself unique and irreplaceable. In this day and age, do you still think having love guarantees a stable marriage? Do you still expect a marriage certificate to hold onto a person? Whether it’s pure love or a marriage certificate, neither is a guarantee for a relationship or marriage. Because they can change anytime.

January 31, 2025 5 min read

After Experiencing Emotional Betrayal, Your Sense of Security Must Be Built on Yourself

Emotions and marriage are essential components of one’s inner sense of security. A happy relationship and marriage will contribute to a person’s emotional stability and satisfaction. So, when a relationship faces betrayal, this sense of security will be shattered, often in a dramatic and abrupt manner. If someone loses their sense of security, they will feel lost, anxious, and restless, constantly feeling uneasy and agitated. Many people, after experiencing betrayal, find themselves unable to focus on anything for a period of time. The impact of betrayal can be so significant that it disrupts their normal life because their inner self is troubled, restless, and always on edge.

December 13, 2024 4 min read

When a Man Truly Loves a Woman, a Woman Can “Feel” It

A woman knows deep down whether a man loves her or not. Sometimes, she just pretends not to know and fools herself. Sarah and her husband have been married for 7 years. They met through their parents. They got married after dating for less than half a year because they were at a certain age. Many friends advised Sarah not to rush into marriage, but she always smiled and said, “It’s okay, love can be cultivated.”

December 4, 2024 5 min read

The Best Way to Love Someone is Not Through Frequent Contact, But by Giving Her These “Things”

Emotions have always been the most unpredictable thing in this world. Some people secretly admire someone, tossing and turning at night, unable to fall asleep. Some love but cannot have, ending in regret. And some love sincerely, holding hands, facing all the ups and downs together. When we were young, we thought loving someone was simple. Just be kind to her, give her good things, and that’s love. But as we grow older, we realize that loving someone is not just about saying “I love you.” Love may be one word, but it can be expressed in many different ways. Some love passionately, like a fire burning, while others love calmly and naturally.

November 16, 2024 4 min read

How to Tell If a Woman Is Easy to Fall in Love With: Three “Tests” to See Clearly

Fifi is 23 years old. She just graduated from college. She got a great internship at a company because of her amazing grades. A lot of guys at the company liked her because she was so good at her job. One guy, John, really liked her. Fifi said no to him, but he kept trying. He was always checking on her and helping her out at work. After a while, Fifi started to feel differently about him. But she knew it wasn’t love, it was just that she was grateful. No matter how hard he tried, Fifi couldn’t convince herself to like him back.

August 11, 2023 4 min read