Relationships

I Refused My Parents’ 30,000-Dollar Dowry, and My Boyfriend Flipped Out

In traditional marriage customs, there are always talks about betrothal gifts, dowries, or accompanying gifts. Despite changes in the times, these old rules have never been completely abandoned. In today’s society, the amount of money the groom’s family gives as a betrothal gift and the number of accompanying gifts from the bride’s family are hot topics of discussion. Many couples even break up because they can’t agree on these issues.

December 16, 2024 4 min read

Men Over 40 Often Have Only One Goal in Emotional Needs

A middle-aged man in a battle, naturally feels compelled to take on greater responsibility for the realities and ideals of the world than anyone else, without being able to shirk it. Therefore, he lasts longer than young people and feels younger than the elderly. Adults have experienced many ups and downs in life. Men over 40, after experiencing the social experiences and life’s storms, do they still pursue love as passionately as young men?

December 15, 2024 4 min read

After Experiencing Emotional Betrayal, Your Sense of Security Must Be Built on Yourself

Emotions and marriage are essential components of one’s inner sense of security. A happy relationship and marriage will contribute to a person’s emotional stability and satisfaction. So, when a relationship faces betrayal, this sense of security will be shattered, often in a dramatic and abrupt manner. If someone loses their sense of security, they will feel lost, anxious, and restless, constantly feeling uneasy and agitated. Many people, after experiencing betrayal, find themselves unable to focus on anything for a period of time. The impact of betrayal can be so significant that it disrupts their normal life because their inner self is troubled, restless, and always on edge.

December 13, 2024 4 min read

These Types of Women Make Men Hard to “Resist”

In real life, what kind of women do men like? This is a question that many people care about. Everyone has different standards of beauty, but outstanding women are usually similar. An excellent woman shines wherever she goes and captivates men. The following types of women often make men unable to resist. Infinitely Charming Women As a woman, you need to have femininity. Remember, your image is worth a million dollars.

December 12, 2024 4 min read

“The Night Before the Wedding, What Kind of Emotions Are You Feeling?”

Mr. Ronald, 27 Margaret Mitchell once said, “The worst part about losing someone is that they are right beside you, yet it feels like they are miles away.” I still can’t forget her. She was my first girlfriend. We broke up because our parents didn’t approve of us being together. She even had a big conflict with her parents to be with me. After being together for 5 years, we chose to part ways. Even after we split, my parents kept arranging blind dates for me. Honestly, I found it quite repulsive. Whenever I think of the beautiful moments we shared, I feel sad.

December 11, 2024 3 min read

How to Make a Man Mentally Dependent on You

How to Make a Man Mentally Dependent on You What is mental dependence? It means he will think of you for everything. You will share joy and sorrow together. Many women, in order to keep a man, try to please him in every way. They make themselves a “giver” to make him dependent on them. However, even if this giving approach succeeds, what it brings to the partner is only a “habitual dependence.” Among all dependent relationships, mental dependence is the real secret to keeping him: making him uncontrollably dependent on you mentally, attracted by you. How to do it? If you want to “mentally control” someone, you need to give him enough mental stimulation. It involves three steps:

December 10, 2024 5 min read

When a Woman Does These Three Things, It Means She’s Into You—Don’t Miss Your Chance

John and Mary were college classmates. After graduation, they both ended up working at the same company. They actually liked each other in college, but they never said anything. So they missed their chance. Now they work at the same company, which is kind of fate. John asks Mary out to eat whenever he has free time, and Mary never refuses. In fact, she’s always happy to go. Mary’s willingness to go out with John and her openness make John feel much better. So, John asks her out, and they officially become a couple.

December 9, 2024 5 min read

How Girls Really React When They Want to Break Up

Key Behaviors That Signal a Woman’s Desire to End the Relationship Once a woman wants to break up, even if she doesn’t say it, the following behaviors will give her away! Let’s get straight to the point. No longer willing to share Before, she would talk to him about trivial matters, but now she doesn’t want to talk about anything important. When a girl likes a guy, she will definitely share every detail of her life with him because she wants to show herself to him and because she trusts and feels secure with him when she loves him.

December 7, 2024 4 min read

Does Chatting with a Girl Every Day Make Her Like You?

Many guys are used to pursuing girls, and the most common approach is to chat with her every day. Is this really effective? I think at most, it just establishes attraction, but it’s still a long way from a committed relationship. To truly make a girl like you and establish a relationship with her, the following three levels of development are absolutely essential. 1. Foundational Development at the Attitude Level I believe that the most important aspect of attitude is the willingness to “express interest in the girl directly and quickly” and “not worry about losing or getting tangled up.”

December 6, 2024 4 min read

Understanding the Sunk Cost in Love

Leveraging Sunk Costs for Better Relationships In emotional reality shows, there’s a common phenomenon: knowing that you’re not happy in a relationship, you’re dissatisfied with many aspects of your partner, but you’re reluctant to break up. Do you still love them? No, you might even dislike them. So, what psychology makes a person reluctant to let go of a bad relationship? They might say, “After so many years, I’ve invested so much emotion, time, energy, and even money. If we break up now, it will all be for nothing.”

December 5, 2024 4 min read