Relationships

Optimizing Your Personal Life Leads to a Successful Marriage

In traditional thinking, girls are often taught to focus on marrying into a good family to have a worry-free life. Even nowadays, when a girl doesn’t excel academically, the advice is to aim for an average level and marry a well-off husband. At work, if you are attractive and have a stable income, older colleagues will set you up with potential suitors. Many believe that as long as a woman has a stable income, good looks, and a good job, she should have no worries. While such cases exist, they are rare.

February 16, 2025 3 min read

Are Women Over 40 Still Interested in Marital Life? Three Women Share Their Secrets

In this world, everything is constantly changing. We all envy those who can maintain a lifelong romance, but the number of people who can achieve this is dwindling. In ancient times, people could have multiple spouses, but they were able to make it to the end. Now, women have more freedom, so they can initiate a divorce if they want to. Everyone has become more equal, and women in marriages can now say “no”.

February 14, 2025 4 min read

If You Notice These Signs in Your Marriage, It’s Time to Rethink Your Relationship

Nietzsche once said, “Marriage is unhappy not because of a lack of love, but because of a lack of friendship.” Friendship requires mutual understanding, communication, and help. Without these, friendship is difficult to maintain. Marriage is the same. To achieve happiness, it requires joint effort and maintenance from both parties. Marriage hates laziness; the more you neglect it, the more it will make you feel unhappy. The emotions between spouses need to be maintained in a balanced and stable state. If you ignore it when you’re busy and try to pick it up when you’re free, it might be too late.

February 13, 2025 4 min read

A 25-Year-Old Girl Tells You: Is Her Marriage Happy by Marrying a 40-Year-Old Man?

“May-December romance” has always been a topic of discussion for many young girls. However, it is often not accepted by many parents who wonder why their daughters would choose a man much older than them but similar in age to themselves. In today’s society, the love between older men and younger women is quite popular. The main reason is that the way older men show affection can make many young girls feel secure and cared for.

February 12, 2025 5 min read

How Do I Forgive Him After His Infidelity ?

Yesterday, I received a plea for help from my friend Jenny. She said her boyfriend cheated on her, and she can’t let go but doesn’t know how to forgive him? I truly understand what it feels like to be betrayed by a beloved person. I remember, not long after breaking up with my first love, he accepted another girl’s pursuit. Even though we had already broken up, we had been together for several years, and this carefree behavior made me feel that we really couldn’t be together again. It made me feel betrayed.

February 10, 2025 8 min read

What Makes Extramarital Affairs Harder Than Normal Relationships?

Unveiling the Truth: The Reality of Women in Extramarital Affairs Women’s Extramarital Affairs, Are You Ready for It? When writing about gender emotions, we naturally cannot avoid the topic of extramarital affairs. In the future, I will discuss extramarital affairs from different perspectives. Today, let’s talk about the differences between extramarital affairs and normal relationships, especially for women. Why do I advise women to be extra cautious when facing extramarital affairs?

February 6, 2025 7 min read

Rejecting Someone Who Chased You for 10 Years: “Earning $30,000 a Month, Deserves Me” “Who Wants…

Love is humble, very humble, if the other person doesn’t love you. In reality, such love stories are everywhere. I love you, but you love her. Even though I know the person you love isn’t me, and maybe will never love me, I still want to try my best to make you fall in love with me. Often, the person who treats you the best is also the easiest to bully. Women in the world always bully the man who treats them the best.

February 5, 2025 4 min read

Why Can’t You Find the Right Person?

For many people, finding a good partner is difficult. They always seem to meet the “wrong” person. Yes, they continue to date, but each time they end up in unsatisfactory relationships. In my view, this is determined by the following reasons. 1. Expecting love that isn’t meant for them Some people are addicted to the pursuit. They love the thrill of trying the forbidden. They often love those who don’t pay attention to them, have no interest in them, or are even bad for them.

February 4, 2025 3 min read

Feeling Secure and Confident: It Comes From Being Irreplaceable

In a relationship, the most direct and effective way to feel secure, confident, and empowered is to make yourself unique and irreplaceable. In this day and age, do you still think having love guarantees a stable marriage? Do you still expect a marriage certificate to hold onto a person? Whether it’s pure love or a marriage certificate, neither is a guarantee for a relationship or marriage. Because they can change anytime.

January 31, 2025 5 min read

Dating: Smart Women Use Strategy, While Foolish Women Strive for Approval

“If you’re smarter, you’ll know to adapt to changes without being too proactive.” Sometimes you put in a lot of effort but don’t get the expected return, and sometimes it’s just not worth it. Women are easily hurt in relationships because they tend to invest all their efforts into love. Women are emotional in love, while men are clear about what they want and not blinded by love. So, women must remember to use some tactics when dealing with men. Being sincere in relationships is important, but sometimes, as the saying goes:

January 29, 2025 5 min read