Relationships

Woman, How Should an Improper Emotion End? Maybe You Can Only Leave It to Fate

There are many similar plots in marital relationships because the initial ways of coping are different, so there are different marital trajectories and life experiences. A woman accidentally had an improper relationship, now that her husband has found out, how should it end? This is a question a woman asked me at noon. It roughly means that a friend has been pursuing her; she “accidentally” made a mistake that her husband cannot tolerate. Last year, she could not resist her friend’s sweet talk and muddle-headedly got together with him; later, they would meet occasionally. Some time ago, her husband found out about this matter. Ever since then, the couple has been fighting all day; now, it has gotten to the point of divorce.

May 9, 2023 15 min read

Love and Insecurity: Coping with the Fear of Rejection

Being Truly Afraid When You Like Someone What does it feel like to like someone? Some say it’s joyful, inexplicably making you feel good all the time, like encountering a great thing. Others say it’s bittersweet, making you feel insecure and anxious. True liking is probably like this, sometimes extremely happy, and sometimes very down. Before that, our mood was mostly under our control, rarely influenced by others. But afterwards, we easily find ourselves often changing our mood because of someone.

May 8, 2023 5 min read

How Long Does It Take for a Man to Forget His First Love? You Might Be Surprised by the Answer.

First love is a memory that is hard to forget, and it carries the beautiful memories of our youth. For both men and women, first love holds a special significance and position in our hearts. After all, it’s the first time we experience love without being tainted by worldly desires and material conditions, and it’s our most innocent experience. For women, first love is like a guiding light that shows them what they want in a partner and how to approach love. It’s a milestone in their emotional journey.

May 7, 2023 3 min read

Are Women Over 45 Satisfied with Their Husbands? Three Women Speak Out

Love is beautiful, but reality sets in. Even if you meet someone at the right age, neglecting them will push you apart. Marriage requires effort to last. Some say marriage hits a rough patch at seven years, but for some, it ends sooner. Some marriages bloom briefly like a flower but never bear fruit. Women at 45, are they satisfied with their husbands? Three women share their thoughts. Dissatisfaction “Being with someone you like shouldn’t cause pain. Loving someone may bring enduring pain, but their joy is the greatest.”

May 6, 2023 2 min read

The Best Techniques to Make a Man Unforgettable: Take It Slow

Annie said: “Men don’t love women; they just need women.” In relationships, women are often at a disadvantage. Therefore, when it comes to romance, women must have an ace up their sleeves to avoid being taken advantage of by men. Many women and men get together without knowing each other well, leading to numerous problems. Marx said: “Only love and coughing are unstoppable.” However, as an individual, one must have self-control. If you can’t resist being with someone, but also can’t resist getting into trouble with them, you’ll end up being the one who gets hurt.

May 5, 2023 4 min read

36-Year-Old Single Woman Mocks Blind Date Man: $5,000 Monthly Income, Are You Even Qualified?

Johnsson said, “Those who marry for money are despicable; those who marry for love are foolish.” One must approach marriage with a clear mind and a comprehensive view of the partner and the relationship. While it’s important to be rational, it’s also crucial not to be greedy. It’s unfair to be with someone solely for money. Even though believers in love often end up deeply hurt, sincerity is never wrong. It’s important to be able to look back without regret.

May 4, 2023 4 min read

Stop Hurting Loved Ones with Violent Communication

How Nonviolent Communication Can Improve Your Relationships What is violent communication? Take this example: “You come home and just play on your phone. It’s like you don’t care about me at all. What’s the point of being in this relationship?!” This is a classic example of “violent communication.” It’s filled with comments, criticisms, accusations, and complaints. When faced with such complaints and accusations, how do most people react? Do they immediately put down their phone and try to have a calm conversation with you? No, their instinct is to put up their defenses. This usually leads to either an argument or a cold war.

May 2, 2023 4 min read

Middle-aged Divorced Couples, Whose Later Life is More Miserable?

Love is the process of marriage; marriage is the goal of love.—Schopenhauer When it comes to marriage, everyone has high hopes. But in reality, not every marriage turns out to be as perfect as imagined. Some couples can share joy but not hardship, a common phenomenon in real life. The fundamental reason why some marriages end is often due to a lack of love. So, when people reach middle age and divorce, who will have a more miserable later life? These three experienced individuals provide honest insights.

May 1, 2023 4 min read