Relationships
Encountering Infidelity, It Can Be a New Starting Point in Life
Encountering betrayal in a relationship can indeed affect the course of one’s life, but such impact may not always be negative. While enduring the pain and torment at the moment, many people have actually embarked on a new journey through the baptism of betrayal. Looking at it from a different perspective, without the betrayal, many people might have led a monotonous life, following the same routine every day, seemingly stable but lacking passion and vision for the future. Days passing by in repetition, just waiting to grow old.
“What Makes a Mistress Better Than a Wife?” Married Men Tell the Truth
Three Miao said, “If love doesn’t fall into the practical aspects of life, such as wearing clothes, eating, sleeping, and counting money, it won’t last long.” Maybe someone will say that these things in life are just small matters. Love can overcome everything, so what’s the big deal about these insignificant things? As long as two people love each other, these things won’t matter. In reality, talking about love without considering life is unrealistic. Otherwise, there wouldn’t be so many people who were once in love but ended up breaking up, and there wouldn’t be those who betrayed their marriages.
Is He Really Into You or Just Faking It? It’s Not That Hard to Tell
Liu Yu once said something about love: Compared to the women I know, men are always more able to fall in love with a “laid-back” attitude. Women, on the other hand, are always in love with an attitude that makes you think of “blood and thunder,” like they’re ready to die for love, jump into a fire, and go down with the ship. They’re in love with a grand, glorious death.
The Man Who Refuses to Share These Three Things with You is Pretending to Love You
Some time ago, I posted an article, and a friend commented: “As a woman, you must withstand lies, endure perfunctoriness, tolerate deception, forget promises, and finally use a smile to cover up the tears that fall. I’d rather believe in ghosts than believe in a man’s broken promises!” After seeing this comment, I felt relieved. Relieved that there are some women who are clear-headed in relationships. But I also felt a bit sad. Sad that there is still so little genuine emotion in this world!
The Art of Dealing with Men: Delayed Satisfaction
Bing, 24, has been married for over three years. Despite her young age, she has a deep understanding of how to maintain a happy marriage. After three years of marriage, Bing has continued to pursue her career, earning her husband’s respect. When friends asked her the secret to her happy marriage, Bing smiled and said, “There’s no secret. As a woman, you should never be too submissive to men. You should have your own opinions and not be swayed by what men say. Only then will men truly love you.”
How to Get Through the Bottleneck Period or Adjustment Period in a Relationship?
Managing the Transition from Romance to Companionship When a relationship moves from the passionate love stage to the adjustment period or bottleneck period, both parties may start to lose patience with each other’s flaws. As time spent together increases, so do conflicts and friction due to heightened dependence on each other, leading to frequent minor disagreements. How should this period be dealt with or resolved? First, let’s look at how the adjustment period and bottleneck period are defined. In his book “The Wisdom of Life,” Schopenhauer proposed the three basic elements that determine a person’s fate: What am I, what do I represent, and what do I possess? Based on this line of thinking, there are three fundamental questions that people need to answer in life: their relationship with the world, their relationship with others, and their relationship with themselves. Among these three questions, the relationship with oneself influences and dominates the relationship with the world and with others. When you enter into an intimate relationship with someone, this model needs to change. Your partner stands out from all other people, and “our relationship” becomes a new element in this model, with its position being equally important as “my relationship with myself.”
Most of the Time, We Like Someone Because of Our Own Flaws
The Pitfalls of Seeking Love to Fill Inner Emptiness In this world, only a very few relationships are based on the mutual attraction and growth of two independent and healthy individuals. Most people like someone because of their own troubles and flaws. For example, loneliness, deprivation, the need for rescue, or seeking parental figures. When unable to handle these issues, they seek someone to escape or fulfill themselves. And then, troubles continue to arise.
When a Man Ignores You, Ignore Him Back, and Watch Him Flinch
Sukhomlinsky once said, “True love requires not only love but also mutual insight into each other’s inner world.” Love is not a solo act. Loving someone more doesn’t guarantee they’ll love you back equally. Just loving someone isn’t enough to keep their heart. Sometimes, a little strategy is needed to understand their thoughts and capture their heart in the right way. When a woman falls deeply in love with a man, her biggest fear is him changing his mind and leaving. After all, he can just walk away, but she can’t unlove him.
The Couple Who Can’t Get Along But Can’t Leave Each Other, Let’s Do This
In “Fortress Besieged,” it is said: “Marriage is like a fortress, with people outside wanting to get in and those inside wanting to get out.” Before marriage, looking into each other’s eyes was all about brightness, but after marriage, it’s all impatience. Before marriage, the couple experienced romance and many adventures together; after marriage, the daily grind weighed them down. Single people long for marriage, while married people yearn for the single life.
When Opposite Sex Relationships Go Beyond Friendship, It Often Starts at These Times, Don’t Doubt
“Most relationships that go beyond friendship start with friendship.” The line between friendship and love can be thin. Sometimes, a simple action or word can change everything. You may not even realize it, but your relationship with someone of the opposite sex may have surpassed mere friendship. Love and friendship are delicate. Despite the distance, sometimes it only takes a single word or action to blur the line between them.
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