Psychology

3 Common Breakup Tactics Used by Scumbags, Girls Beware

What is a “scumbag”? According to the encyclopedia, it refers to a man who is selfish, good at taking, irresponsible, and plays with other people’s feelings. During the dating process, some women, due to bad luck, inadvertently encounter these immature, cowardly, and disrespectful men. The reason these men are called scumbags is not just hearsay. You can tell by their behavior and attitude when breaking up. When women want to break up, they generally do it decisively, clearly stating the reasons and ending the relationship. But scumbags may not say a word and simply disappear without a trace. They may not break up face-to-face or over the phone but instead inform the woman unilaterally via FB, saying “Let’s break up,” and then proceed to block her. If the woman asks “Why?” she receives a system prompt saying “You are no longer friends.” Scumbags like to use unclear attitudes. Women who can’t see through these men’s intentions may choose to wait because they’re reluctant to leave, only to be hurt deeply.

December 24, 2023 3 min read

Don’t Rush into a Relationship with Someone Too Quickly

Let me tell you about a friend’s personal experience. This young woman, 28 years old, was under intense pressure from her family to get married. She happened to meet a man online, and after a period of enjoyable conversation, they decided to meet in person. After their meal, the man suggested going to a hotel. The young woman was hesitant at first, but she thought she was quite satisfied with the man in every aspect. She was afraid that if she refused, there might not be a future between them. After much consideration, she agreed.

December 21, 2023 5 min read

Three Reasons You’re Still Single

Many single women, after being alone for a long time, gradually get used to the solitude and start thinking that being alone is not bad at all—free and carefree. However, when it’s quiet at night, they know that these are just excuses to comfort themselves. We’ve identified three types of single women. Which one are you? I’m waiting for fate to happen. Some girls are passive. Whether they meet someone they like or someone who likes them, if they don’t end up together, they console themselves by saying, “My time hasn’t come yet. I haven’t met my other half.” This is indeed a good reason to comfort oneself. Love requires effort from both sides—whether it’s making an effort to attract or pursue, you need to make an effort to bear fruit with your significant other.

August 15, 2023 2 min read