Psychology

Why Are You Still Single? 5 Reasons for Being Single

Many people say they’ve been trying for a long time but can’t seem to get out of being single. They’re confused about the reasons. Today, I want to list some common reasons among women for being single. There are many reasons for being single, and each person’s reasons are different. Often, we think it’s just a matter of not finding the right person, but there are often deeper reasons behind it.

November 14, 2024 4 min read

10 Dating Advice for Guys

Here’s some dating advice for guys that will benefit you for a lifetime. Don’t rush into a relationship. As a pursuer, you should avoid hastily defining a relationship, as it may make the woman feel your intentions are impure. Take some time to observe a person. Value material compatibility. If you want to marry, stay away from those in the lower echelons of the city. Politely reject them. Use love as a tool to protect yourself. Find a practical woman. If you meet someone wealthier, talk about love, if they are poorer, discuss compatibility. If the other party’s family assets are tenfold larger, you’ve found true love.

October 19, 2024 2 min read

Smart Ways for Women to Maintain a Happy Marriage

Unhappy people each have their own unhappiness, but happy people are always so alike. What are the commonalities among the couples who grow old together and spend their lives together? Have you observed any of these traits in the loving couples around you? Mutual Consideration The power of love is immensely great. It can turn ugly into beautiful, evil into good, emptiness into fulfillment, negativity into positivity, disappointment into hope, and backwardness into progress. Love is the most wonderful and desirable thing. When two people are together, they encourage each other in times of negativity, motivate each other in times of pessimism, and restrain each other in times of arrogance.

October 18, 2024 3 min read

This Kind of State is the Best For Women When They are Single

The story begins with a friend sending me a message, saying: “There’s a friend of mine who perfectly fits the state I described.” Her friend, born in 1986, has always been pursued and has also pursued men. She has had several relationships, with the youngest being born in 1991. Many of them even introduced her to their parents. Some were wealthy, had good temperaments, and were devoted to her. She knows exactly what she wants in life. Marriage is just a phase in her life. With a broad perspective, she can handle every phase with ease and doesn’t get worked up over the gains and losses of each phase. She wants the whole world and isn’t concerned about small gains and losses.

October 14, 2024 3 min read

The Man Who Refuses to Share These Three Things with You is Pretending to Love You

Some time ago, I posted an article, and a friend commented: “As a woman, you must withstand lies, endure perfunctoriness, tolerate deception, forget promises, and finally use a smile to cover up the tears that fall. I’d rather believe in ghosts than believe in a man’s broken promises!” After seeing this comment, I felt relieved. Relieved that there are some women who are clear-headed in relationships. But I also felt a bit sad. Sad that there is still so little genuine emotion in this world!

August 11, 2024 5 min read

When a Man Ignores You, Ignore Him Back, and Watch Him Flinch

Sukhomlinsky once said, “True love requires not only love but also mutual insight into each other’s inner world.” Love is not a solo act. Loving someone more doesn’t guarantee they’ll love you back equally. Just loving someone isn’t enough to keep their heart. Sometimes, a little strategy is needed to understand their thoughts and capture their heart in the right way. When a woman falls deeply in love with a man, her biggest fear is him changing his mind and leaving. After all, he can just walk away, but she can’t unlove him.

August 6, 2024 5 min read

6 Signs That a Man is Interested in You

Frequently Stares at You The eyes are the windows to the soul and the easiest way to reveal affection. When a man gazes at you affectionately, you should know that he likes you. Good friends don’t often look at you with tender eyes. These kinds of guys are usually very gentle. When you’re with them, you won’t have to go through a lot of emotional ups and downs. They are like sunshine in your life, bringing you warmth and happiness.

August 4, 2024 3 min read

How Could You Not Feel Hatred for Someone Who Betrayed You?

Stay away from those who easily advise you to be generous, so that you won’t be struck by lightning because of them. This sentence actually makes a lot of sense. Encountering betrayal in a relationship, it’s normal to feel hatred and a desire for revenge. This is a normal reaction for anyone—to be hurt by someone for no reason, even a Buddha would probably roar like a lion. However, in reality, there are always so many people comforting you: Let it go, don’t dwell on it, why carry so much hatred all the time, why are you so narrow-minded, why not give others a chance…

August 1, 2024 5 min read

How to Tell If a Guy Truly Loves You: 3 Things to Look Out For

Hugo once said, “The love that’s just starting out sees only life, but the love that lasts sees eternity.” Beautiful love always needs to be tested, and perhaps in real life, many women have a habit of constantly asking their men if they truly love them. At first, the guy might patiently answer, but as time goes on, he’ll start to get annoyed with this behavior. However, the underlying reason women ask this question is because they want to know if the guy truly loves them.

June 21, 2024 5 min read

How to Overcome Relationship Doubt and Insecurity

Always Suspecting Boyfriend, Worried He Might Cheat Next Second, What to Do? Came across an interesting tweet: “Dreamt that my husband took a second wife, and the vinegar jar exploded in my dream. It was full of negative energy, which made me vent my anger at him all day!” I wonder what all the girls think after reading this tweet? This reminds me of a funny story: Tom wanted to hang a painting. He had nails but no hammer, and his neighbor had a hammer. So, he decided to borrow the hammer from his neighbor. Just then, he started to have doubts: What if the neighbor didn’t want to lend him the hammer?

June 19, 2024 6 min read