Psychology

The Right Way to Handle Someone Not Responding to Messages

Between people, there are always some who are more proactive and some who are more passive. Actually, when we happen to be the more proactive one, as long as our initiative is valued by the other person and our messages are responded to seriously, it doesn’t really matter who initiates the conversation. When our initiative is valued and reciprocated, even if we were the first to reach out, we don’t need to keep track of who initiated the conversation.

January 9, 2025 5 min read

Understanding Three Psychological Aspects of Men to Keep Them Loving You Continuously

Do you believe in love at first sight? In most cases, relationships start with physical attraction and are sustained by character compatibility. Understanding and tolerance lead to lasting love. Feelings change, relationships are unpredictable. The key to maintaining a relationship and turning it into a marriage is to understand how to keep a man’s passion alive. Here’s something everyone should pay attention to: How can you keep a man loving you continuously? By mastering these three psychological aspects, you can make him yours for life.

January 4, 2025 4 min read

This is the Mindset Girls Should Have When Pursuing Their Crush

“Love is a game” This is what a friend of mine shared with our chat group about her successful experience. The group is for female students to share tips on dressing up, makeup, taking photos, flirting, and all kinds of issues before and during a relationship. Although we are of different ages, communication is seamless. Also, everyone has their own strengths and expertise—I don’t know much about clothes, makeup and such, haha.

January 3, 2025 5 min read

When a Woman Truly Loves Someone, She Doesn’t Make the First Move—She Waits to Be “Hit On”

There’s a line in the movie “Shrek” where Shrek says: “If you like someone, you gotta tell them.” Even though Shrek is an ugly monster and the person he likes is a princess, he’s still brave enough to be with her. This shows that sometimes, a guy is bolder than a girl, especially in love. In a TV show, actress Jenny had a crush on the male lead. But she was a girl, so she was too scared to approach him. She would even take a detour if she saw him coming.

January 2, 2025 5 min read

Dealing with Betrayal in Relationships: Avoid Indecisiveness

When faced with betrayal in relationships and marriage, handling and addressing the situation can be complex. Especially when it involves family, children, and one’s future happiness, careful consideration is necessary. However, many people often find themselves stuck in a dilemma when dealing with betrayal in relationships and marriage. They struggle to resolve the issue because of their own indecisiveness—and in relationships, nothing is worse than being indecisive. When it comes to dealing with betrayal in relationships, the ultimate choices boil down to two options: either forgive and move on, or let go.

January 1, 2025 4 min read

Why Is Blind Dating Harder to Form “Feelings” Than Free Love?

Let’s talk about what girls have been talking about all along, “feelings.” It’s actually sexual impulse. It’s the most primal instinct, the reproductive impulse that arises from the heart. Of course, it doesn’t necessarily have to be handsome, that’s too narrow. It could also be about having leadership, assertiveness, insight, experience, talent, status. And this can’t be forced; it can only be evoked internally. Trying to persuade yourself with logic is useless.

December 30, 2024 5 min read

Gender Inequality in Relationships between Men and Women

Shakespeare once said, “Women do not have the conditions to be arrogant in love.” In the past, this seemed like a conclusion based on a specific historical era. But now, looking at it in modern times, it still applies. In a romantic relationship, if you are constantly in a power struggle with a man subconsciously, you’ve already lost. True empowerment means not even noticing the existence of this power struggle.

December 27, 2024 4 min read

Who is the Woman Men Love Most: Lover or Wife?

To be honest, being a lover is easier than being a wife. Not getting married means being free. From planning the day to setting life goals, it’s all up to you. This kind of freedom is really precious. Of course, you can socialize with friends and date different men if that makes you happy, which is something a wife can’t enjoy. While many women strive to be the perfect wife, some women enjoy the efforts of the men behind these wives.

December 21, 2024 5 min read

What Kind of Couples Can Stay Together for a Long Time

Couples who can stay together for a long time must meet one of the following four principles: 1. Common Life Goals Many couples who break up after a few months are essentially just enjoying the benefits of the honeymoon period. Once the passion fades, they go their separate ways. When two people are together, they are essentially forming a small team. Why form a team? It’s to achieve something that one person alone cannot achieve, creating a synergy effect.

December 19, 2024 5 min read

Men Over 40 Often Have Only One Goal in Emotional Needs

A middle-aged man in a battle, naturally feels compelled to take on greater responsibility for the realities and ideals of the world than anyone else, without being able to shirk it. Therefore, he lasts longer than young people and feels younger than the elderly. Adults have experienced many ups and downs in life. Men over 40, after experiencing the social experiences and life’s storms, do they still pursue love as passionately as young men?

December 15, 2024 4 min read