Psychology

What Behaviors to Avoid When Just Getting to Know a Girl?

When making new friends, it’s best to avoid talking too deeply about personal matters. When starting to flirt with a girl, it’s best to avoid being too intrusive or thinking too far ahead. I’ve always emphasized that women have a strong defense mechanism when dealing with unfamiliar men. Unless you have extremely strong sexual appeal (tall, rich, and handsome), prematurely crossing boundaries will make a woman feel insecure. So, many women are resistant to men who are too familiar.

January 31, 2026 4 min read

10 Signs of Secret Crush, Do You Have It?

When you have a secret crush on someone, you often doubt your feelings, wondering if the flutter in your heart is just a simple fondness or real love. But the bittersweet feeling inside is so real… Secret crushes can really be quite vexing! Especially when you’re still unsure about your feelings. Instead of agonizing over it, let’s see if you have the signs of love! You develop strange new hobbies When you’re fascinated with someone, you hope for a chance to chat more with them and long for them to know about your shared interests. So, when you unintentionally discover their hobbies, you become obsessed with them, enjoying books you can’t understand and music you used to dislike.

January 29, 2026 4 min read

Why Can’t Many Beautiful and Accomplished Women Find Partners?

1. The Dilemma of Pursuit Not many guys pursue beautiful and accomplished women because most honest guys don’t dare to pursue them. So, for these beautiful and accomplished women, if they don’t take the initiative, their options are very limited. 2. Beauty and Accomplishments Don’t Guarantee a Match Their single status isn’t directly related to their beauty and accomplishments. It’s about their own standards for a partner. With good qualities, it’s natural to seek an even better match.

January 27, 2026 5 min read

How to Make Her Like You More While Chatting?

Recently, a friend asked me a long-standing question about chatting with women. He said, “How should I chat with women so that they’ll like me more?” I told him, “You can’t expect chatting to make a woman like you more. Although some guys can achieve that, it’s about one or two out of ten.” Many guys have this kind of thinking: As long as I chat well with women and make them happy, they will like me.

January 8, 2026 4 min read

Why Doesn’t He Appreciate My Kindness?

Why is it that I’m so good to him, yet he doesn’t appreciate it? Why do I put in so much effort, only to end up being dumped or cheated on? Why is he so stingy with investing in me, even though he’s not short of money?… All these questions can be answered with one word—women’s “frame”. In a romantic relationship, a woman must have her own frame. Without a frame, there is no charm, and men won’t cherish her.

December 30, 2025 8 min read

Why do Good Girls Always Fall for Jerks?

The reason why someone is attractive is because their presence holds a rewarding significance for others. In Haruki Murakami’s classic novel “Norwegian Wood,” there is a character named Nagasawa. He is a very unique person. For example, he comes from a wealthy family, is intelligent and studious. While other students were busy enjoying themselves, he was already self-studying various languages, working towards his goal of becoming a diplomat. Not only that, he is also responsible and charming. When there are conflicts among students, he steps in to resolve them. When he speaks in a crowd, everyone is drawn to him.

December 23, 2025 5 min read

Why Can Some People Maintain Long-term Attraction to the Opposite Sex?

The Difference Between Value and Attraction in Relationships Some people can maintain long-term attraction in relationships, while others lose their charm after a while, and some fail to attract the opposite sex at all. What exactly is the secret for those who can sustain long-term attraction? The Difference Between “Contributing Value” and “Attraction” Some say that providing value to the other person is essential for maintaining a long-term relationship, such as providing financial and career assistance, companionship and care in life, emotional support and comfort, helping with filial piety, raising children, and so on.

December 12, 2025 4 min read

The Two Main Reasons Why People Who Once Mingled on Social Media Suddenly Disappear

Social media is where we share personal updates and express emotions. When someone is active on social media, they are showing us their life. But what does it mean when someone vanishes from social media? Usually, it’s due to one of these two reasons. Starting to Hustle and Make Money In today’s fast-paced world, time is limited but fair to all. Some make the most of their time, creating maximum value. Others, thinking they have time to spare, get lost in social media, not realizing it’s just a glimpse of life, not life itself.

December 11, 2025 2 min read

The Most Useful 8 Tips for Dating

Don’t date someone who is emotionally abusive. Once you notice a flaw in your boyfriend’s character or negative habits, cut ties quickly. Many girls tend to soften their hearts and hold onto the hope that their boyfriends will change. But can a person’s nature really change so easily? If there’s violence once, there will be violence again. You won’t be the one who changes him. Once you start comparing with your boyfriend, the relationship will be almost over. Don’t compare yourself and him with other couples. Don’t say things like, “Someone’s boyfriend gave her a sports car for Valentine’s Day,” or “Someone’s boyfriend threw a proposal party.” Just vent to your friends about it. If you’re not happy, just find someone else. It’s unfair to force your boyfriend into a difficult position.

December 2, 2025 4 min read

How Long Can Men Endure Long-Distance Marriage? The Answers of 3 Men Are Very Realistic

They say, “Home cannot hold the body, and faraway places cannot hold the soul.” With the development of society, the speed of development between cities and rural areas is seriously unbalanced. Many people choose to work away from home in pursuit of better material conditions. Working in developed cities has many benefits, such as exposure to a broader world, learning new things, making more friends, having better development opportunities, and being able to earn more money for a better material life for themselves and their families. So, many people leave their hometowns to work elsewhere.

November 1, 2025 5 min read