Memories

The Best Way to Forget Someone: Recall Intensely Until Exhausted

They say too much of anything will lead to a backlash. When we repeatedly indulge in the same food, our brain will react by starting to reject it. Similarly, when we keep admiring the same scenery, our aesthetic sense will tire and become weary. So, can forgetting someone be achieved by truly trying to forget? In my opinion, absolutely! “Go Against the Grain” Some say nothing is more sorrowful than a dead heart, and forgetting is the best way to erase someone from memory. However, forgetting someone is always the most challenging step to take.

June 23, 2025 • 4 min read

Couples Issues Love Feelings Emotions Romanticism Relationships

Do Men Miss Their Ex-wives After Divorce? Insights from Three Men

A few years ago, there was an advertisement slogan that said: “Fate is predetermined, but happiness is up to you.” Many people get together with someone due to fate, feeling incredibly happy and fortunate in the beginning. However, over time, things fade, and if a marriage isn’t nurtured well, it may come to an end. It’s often easier to conquer than to maintain, just like relationships. Sometimes, a simple gathering or trip can bring two people together. But staying together requires effort.

March 17, 2025 • 4 min read

Love Feelings Emotions Romanticism

The Three “Traces” That Can’t Hide the Man Who Keeps You in His Heart for Years

Many people misunderstand when it comes to love. They think mutual affection and care equals love. But real love is when one person loves alone. “Only those who have never loved, can love; those who have loved, are afflicted by love.” Even if two people who weren’t together have moved on and found new partners, many emotions from the past still linger. As adults, love isn’t about finding the perfect match, but about weighing the pros and cons. Even if there’s a lingering love in your heart, you will still cherish the person in front of you.

February 26, 2025 • 4 min read

Love Feelings Emotions Romanticism Dating

The One Who Lingers in the Heart, Whether Seen or Unseen, Will Be Missed

Emotions are a strange thing. They can take root in your heart without you realizing it. By the time you notice, you’re already deeply in love, unable to be without them. Just like the one who lingers in your heart, whether seen or unseen, will be missed. Love is love, and when we truly love someone, we constantly think about them. Wondering what they are doing at this moment, and if they think of us too.

February 8, 2025 • 4 min read

Love Romanticism Relationships

The Impact of First Love on a Boy’s Future Relationships

Which Girlfriend Is Least Likely to Break Up with a Boy? Today, my mood is as foggy as the weather! First, I’m extremely tired because of a lot of recent events. And then, sigh, I can’t help but feel some regret about certain things, but I’m powerless to change it. All I can do is keep moving forward. This afternoon, a girl asked me a question: Which girlfriend is least likely to break up with a boy?

May 10, 2023 • 5 min read