Marriage

She Cheats to Suppress Her Husband—Who Believe in Poisonous Romance Soup Are Deluding Themselves

One afternoon, a friend told me a very wise saying: “Things given for free are the most expensive; the most beautiful are often transient. Life requires perseverance, and one should never slack off.” This saying can stand the test of time, and many people have realized its truth through painful experiences. Things that are easily obtained are often easily lost. This is especially true in relationships, whether romantic or platonic. If you do not make sufficient effort and rely solely on taking, it is impossible to sustain a long-lasting relationship.

October 15, 2024 14 min read

“What Makes a Mistress Better Than a Wife?” Married Men Tell the Truth

Three Miao said, “If love doesn’t fall into the practical aspects of life, such as wearing clothes, eating, sleeping, and counting money, it won’t last long.” Maybe someone will say that these things in life are just small matters. Love can overcome everything, so what’s the big deal about these insignificant things? As long as two people love each other, these things won’t matter. In reality, talking about love without considering life is unrealistic. Otherwise, there wouldn’t be so many people who were once in love but ended up breaking up, and there wouldn’t be those who betrayed their marriages.

October 12, 2024 4 min read

The Art of Dealing with Men: Delayed Satisfaction

Bing, 24, has been married for over three years. Despite her young age, she has a deep understanding of how to maintain a happy marriage. After three years of marriage, Bing has continued to pursue her career, earning her husband’s respect. When friends asked her the secret to her happy marriage, Bing smiled and said, “There’s no secret. As a woman, you should never be too submissive to men. You should have your own opinions and not be swayed by what men say. Only then will men truly love you.”

August 10, 2024 4 min read

How to Get Through the Bottleneck Period or Adjustment Period in a Relationship?

Managing the Transition from Romance to Companionship When a relationship moves from the passionate love stage to the adjustment period or bottleneck period, both parties may start to lose patience with each other’s flaws. As time spent together increases, so do conflicts and friction due to heightened dependence on each other, leading to frequent minor disagreements. How should this period be dealt with or resolved? First, let’s look at how the adjustment period and bottleneck period are defined. In his book “The Wisdom of Life,” Schopenhauer proposed the three basic elements that determine a person’s fate: What am I, what do I represent, and what do I possess? Based on this line of thinking, there are three fundamental questions that people need to answer in life: their relationship with the world, their relationship with others, and their relationship with themselves. Among these three questions, the relationship with oneself influences and dominates the relationship with the world and with others. When you enter into an intimate relationship with someone, this model needs to change. Your partner stands out from all other people, and “our relationship” becomes a new element in this model, with its position being equally important as “my relationship with myself.”

August 9, 2024 6 min read

The Unfiltered Voices of Women: Understanding the Dynamics of Extramarital Affairs

Why Do Women Have Extramarital Affairs? Listen to Their Truth! Understanding the Reasons Behind Women’s Infidelity in Marriage Marriage is the union of love and intimacy. If a woman marries a man she loves and leads a happy life, she won’t want to betray him. When a woman has an affair, it’s often because she feels neglected by her husband, thinks he no longer loves her, or is disappointed in the marriage.

August 8, 2024 4 min read

Most of the Time, We Like Someone Because of Our Own Flaws

The Pitfalls of Seeking Love to Fill Inner Emptiness In this world, only a very few relationships are based on the mutual attraction and growth of two independent and healthy individuals. Most people like someone because of their own troubles and flaws. For example, loneliness, deprivation, the need for rescue, or seeking parental figures. When unable to handle these issues, they seek someone to escape or fulfill themselves. And then, troubles continue to arise.

August 7, 2024 5 min read

The Couple Who Can’t Get Along But Can’t Leave Each Other, Let’s Do This

In “Fortress Besieged,” it is said: “Marriage is like a fortress, with people outside wanting to get in and those inside wanting to get out.” Before marriage, looking into each other’s eyes was all about brightness, but after marriage, it’s all impatience. Before marriage, the couple experienced romance and many adventures together; after marriage, the daily grind weighed them down. Single people long for marriage, while married people yearn for the single life.

August 5, 2024 3 min read

6 Signs That a Man is Interested in You

Frequently Stares at You The eyes are the windows to the soul and the easiest way to reveal affection. When a man gazes at you affectionately, you should know that he likes you. Good friends don’t often look at you with tender eyes. These kinds of guys are usually very gentle. When you’re with them, you won’t have to go through a lot of emotional ups and downs. They are like sunshine in your life, bringing you warmth and happiness.

August 4, 2024 3 min read

Ph.D. Seeks Marriage, Sets Three Requirements, Mocked by Blind Date Man: “Can You Still Have Kids?”

In today’s era of open romance, the term “leftover woman” has long been accepted by the public. When a woman reaches 30 without getting married, it’s perfectly normal. Regardless of age, every woman should have the right to choose a partner without being eliminated by others. Meimei is 36 this year, a true female academic overachiever. She excelled in her studies and was even admitted to university directly. After completing her undergraduate degree, she pursued a Ph.D.

August 3, 2024 3 min read

How to Tell If a Guy Truly Loves You: 3 Things to Look Out For

Hugo once said, “The love that’s just starting out sees only life, but the love that lasts sees eternity.” Beautiful love always needs to be tested, and perhaps in real life, many women have a habit of constantly asking their men if they truly love them. At first, the guy might patiently answer, but as time goes on, he’ll start to get annoyed with this behavior. However, the underlying reason women ask this question is because they want to know if the guy truly loves them.

June 21, 2024 5 min read