Marriage

Understanding the Sunk Cost in Love

Leveraging Sunk Costs for Better Relationships In emotional reality shows, there’s a common phenomenon: knowing that you’re not happy in a relationship, you’re dissatisfied with many aspects of your partner, but you’re reluctant to break up. Do you still love them? No, you might even dislike them. So, what psychology makes a person reluctant to let go of a bad relationship? They might say, “After so many years, I’ve invested so much emotion, time, energy, and even money. If we break up now, it will all be for nothing.”

December 5, 2024 4 min read

Long-Term Separation, What Should a Man Do When He Misses His Wife? Three Men Speak Honestly

“Love is like chewing gum in the beginning; marriage is like chewing gum at the end.” Love can be sweet, but marriage often brings bitterness. Some couples live apart for extended periods after marriage, spending less time together than when they were dating. Women often ask men, “Why don’t you cherish me anymore? You had time for me during our dating days, why not now?” The truth is, after marriage, men aren’t avoiding their wives. Life gets busier, pressures mount, and the sweetness of marriage can turn sour.

November 29, 2024 3 min read

Four Characteristics of Women That Make Men “Addicted” in Relationships

In the world of relationships, men never stop pursuing. A woman must carry the charm that keeps a man chasing and addicted to her, to make him continuously pursue her without feeling tired and even without complaints. I often see women who are always surrounded by men, exuding an irresistible charm that keeps men hooked and addicted to them. These women possess qualities that make others very addicted to them.

November 28, 2024 2 min read

The Deepest Worries of Men in their 40s in Marriage Life—Three Men Revealed Their “Secrets”

Mr. Wang, Fear of Rejection Being married to my wife for 20 years, we’ve been through thick and thin together. Our current relationship is not as intimate as before. She used to be affectionate, but now she constantly rejects me. In the early days of our relationship, we were deeply in love. But now, she won’t even let me touch her because she says I snore. She even suggested sleeping in separate beds. Initially, I resisted but eventually started sleeping alone in the study to avoid disturbing her. However, this arrangement is not what I want, leading to many conflicts between us.

November 26, 2024 3 min read

The Easiest Way to Make Couples Drift Apart, Smart Women Never Touch, Foolish Women Keep Doing

Recently, I saw this on the internet: “All disappointments accumulate bit by bit. When enough disappointments gather, that person will leave.” Most women would say this to men because they believe if men don’t change or make too many mistakes, they will leave. But women’s actions can also hurt men’s feelings. In life, one hand alone cannot clap. Marriage requires effort from both sides. In this relationship, women surely make mistakes that lead to a breakup.

November 24, 2024 5 min read

Never Treat Your Wife Like “Family,” No Matter How Understanding She Is

When men are in love, they often use endearing terms like “baby,” “dear,” or “sweetheart” for women. But after marriage, these terms change to “wife” or “the kid’s mom.” In many families, couples don’t even address each other by name. The change in how they address each other signifies a shift in the relationship. From getting to know each other as lovers, to getting married, having children, and becoming life partners, the transition from romantic love to familial love can feel natural.

November 20, 2024 4 min read

The Differences Between Ex-Husbands and Current Husbands? Three Remarried Women Speak the Truth

Leonidova once said: “The foundation of marriage is love, attachment, and respect.” For many marriages, this doesn’t seem to fit. Many women enter marriage full of joy, believing in love, only to find their dreams shattered by the reality of married life. Many women hoped to be the heroine of a fairy tale, to walk hand in hand with their beloved, supporting each other and receiving love from their man. But often, expectations lead to disappointment.

November 19, 2024 4 min read

“What Is It Like for Men to Marry a Beautiful Wife?” Three Married Men Speak Their Minds

A beautiful woman in a man’s eyes is captivating in every move. For men, marrying a beautiful woman is a lifelong dream. Men are visual creatures, especially when it comes to seeing a beauty, they can’t take their eyes off. Even when they have a partner by their side, they don’t hesitate to admire others. This behavior may upset their partners, but they do not care. Ancient poets were able to vividly describe the beauty of women. The allure of a beautiful woman on men is immense. Men who marry attractive wives become objects of envy for other men.

November 18, 2024 5 min read

If You Really Want to Find a Partner, Please Lower Your Standards First!

01 Many single people have probably heard their friends and family say, “Your standards are too high, that’s why you can’t find a partner.” Most people must have felt quite annoyed when hearing this: “How are my standards too high? Can’t I have some standards? Should I just settle for anyone when finding a partner?” Indeed, it’s normal to have standards when finding a partner, and one shouldn’t settle. Nevertheless, I want to advise everyone today, if you truly want to find a partner, then you need to lower your standards first!

November 18, 2024 6 min read

56-Year-Old Aunt’s Solo Road Trip Goes Viral: “I Can’t Divorce, But Let Me Escape for a While”

Yang Jiang once said, “The world belongs to oneself and has nothing to do with others.” Online, a 56-year-old aunt who went on a solo road trip has become popular. In a video, she mentioned living with her husband under the arrangement of splitting expenses due to their different ideologies. For the sake of their children, she chose not to divorce. However, she felt unhappy due to the gap between her and her husband’s thoughts. Therefore, she decided to take a break and explore on her own.

November 17, 2024 4 min read