Marriage

The 3 Difficulties for Remarried Couples, Overcome Them for Everlasting Love, Fail and Face Divorce…

Qian Zhongshu once said, “Marriage is like a walled city, with those outside wanting in and those inside wanting out.” Thinking about it now, that statement isn’t wrong. Marriage is a gamble for everyone. Win, and you might be happy for a lifetime. Lose, and you’ll suffer. This is especially true for remarried couples, who face various challenges. If they overcome these hurdles, they might grow old together. If not, they might end up parting ways.

February 22, 2025 4 min read

People Who Stay Single for a Long Time Do It by Choice

After starting work, I rarely see well-off, comfortable, and ambitious guys staying single. If they do, it’s usually because they want to. In this game of pursuit, boys have always been the ones in control. In high school, most boys were already crushing on girls, and vice versa. But back then, everyone was focused on the pretty, attractive, and high-achieving boys and girls. In everyone’s dreams, there are goddesses and gods, and you’ll find that they are also goddesses and gods to those around you.

February 18, 2025 5 min read

Breaking the Cycle: Zhang Guimei’s Mission to Educate Underprivileged Girls

Principal Zhang Guimei of Huaping Women’s High School recently told a student, when she came with her husband to donate, “Get out! I worked so hard to get you out of the mountainous area, but now you’ve become a full-time housewife.” Zhang, who is in her senior years, is the Party Secretary and Principal of Lijiang Huaping Women’s High School, as well as the Director of Huaping Children’s Welfare Institute. She is a “teacher mom” to students of all ethnic groups and a “real mom” to 136 orphans.

February 17, 2025 3 min read

Optimizing Your Personal Life Leads to a Successful Marriage

In traditional thinking, girls are often taught to focus on marrying into a good family to have a worry-free life. Even nowadays, when a girl doesn’t excel academically, the advice is to aim for an average level and marry a well-off husband. At work, if you are attractive and have a stable income, older colleagues will set you up with potential suitors. Many believe that as long as a woman has a stable income, good looks, and a good job, she should have no worries. While such cases exist, they are rare.

February 16, 2025 3 min read

If You Notice These Signs in Your Marriage, It’s Time to Rethink Your Relationship

Nietzsche once said, “Marriage is unhappy not because of a lack of love, but because of a lack of friendship.” Friendship requires mutual understanding, communication, and help. Without these, friendship is difficult to maintain. Marriage is the same. To achieve happiness, it requires joint effort and maintenance from both parties. Marriage hates laziness; the more you neglect it, the more it will make you feel unhappy. The emotions between spouses need to be maintained in a balanced and stable state. If you ignore it when you’re busy and try to pick it up when you’re free, it might be too late.

February 13, 2025 4 min read

How Do I Forgive Him After His Infidelity ?

Yesterday, I received a plea for help from my friend Jenny. She said her boyfriend cheated on her, and she can’t let go but doesn’t know how to forgive him? I truly understand what it feels like to be betrayed by a beloved person. I remember, not long after breaking up with my first love, he accepted another girl’s pursuit. Even though we had already broken up, we had been together for several years, and this carefree behavior made me feel that we really couldn’t be together again. It made me feel betrayed.

February 10, 2025 8 min read

What Makes Extramarital Affairs Harder Than Normal Relationships?

Unveiling the Truth: The Reality of Women in Extramarital Affairs Women’s Extramarital Affairs, Are You Ready for It? When writing about gender emotions, we naturally cannot avoid the topic of extramarital affairs. In the future, I will discuss extramarital affairs from different perspectives. Today, let’s talk about the differences between extramarital affairs and normal relationships, especially for women. Why do I advise women to be extra cautious when facing extramarital affairs?

February 6, 2025 7 min read

Encountering Infidelity, the Most Perplexing Issue

When a marriage encounters infidelity, a series of problems arise, each one trapping you. This complexity in dealing with and handling the affair is beyond the capability of most people. For the betrayed party, the four most concerning and difficult questions are: First, Does he still love me? Does he still have feelings for me? The answer to this question is, there is still some love and feelings. However, you must understand that:

February 5, 2025 4 min read

Why Can’t You Find the Right Person?

For many people, finding a good partner is difficult. They always seem to meet the “wrong” person. Yes, they continue to date, but each time they end up in unsatisfactory relationships. In my view, this is determined by the following reasons. 1. Expecting love that isn’t meant for them Some people are addicted to the pursuit. They love the thrill of trying the forbidden. They often love those who don’t pay attention to them, have no interest in them, or are even bad for them.

February 4, 2025 3 min read

Why I Stopped Replying to Your Messages (Very Realistic)

You sent a string of question marks, asking why I didn’t reply to your messages. Initially, I didn’t want to answer you, but after some thought, I decided to let you understand my perspective since we’re friends. I’m not unwilling to continue our friendship, but reality is that it’s impossible to continue. Maybe I have high expectations for friends, and the things you said didn’t interest me, while my words were often interrupted by you.

January 28, 2025 6 min read