Marriage

May You Meet Your Soulmate in This Life

We often find ourselves in certain situations but never truly pay attention to them—especially when it comes to emotions and marriage. What is love? What is marriage? What kind of love and marriage are we in? What kind of love and marriage do we hope for? These are probably questions we have never really asked ourselves or made efforts for our own happiness in love and marriage. When we are hurt in a relationship, where do we focus our attention? It’s crucial—many people remain trapped in a relationship because they overlook taking charge of their own lives and destinies, relying all their hopes on another person.

March 10, 2025 3 min read

The Woman Who Was Always Criticized Chose to Divorce After Her Child’s College Entrance Exam

Marriage can be a source of happiness if you marry the right person, but it can also become a torment if you choose the wrong one. For a woman, marriage is crucial as it determines the course of her life. My friend, Jane, decided to divorce her husband right after their child completed the college entrance exam this year. Many people couldn’t understand her decision. They thought it was foolish to choose divorce at this point.

March 8, 2025 3 min read

The Signs of a Woman Who Truly Wants to Break Up

The Evolution of Emotions: From Wanting to be Loved to Wanting to Leave Women in love are always difficult to remain rational. Often because of a man’s action, a word, or a behavior, she becomes very hysterical. She mentions breaking up, keeps shouting, constantly asks the man to love her more, not to ignore her needs, expresses her emotions to the man, and sends many texts. I believe many men have experienced a woman who always talks about breaking up but actually doesn’t want to, she just wants attention, hoping the man will treat her better.

March 7, 2025 5 min read

Women Should Never Initiate Divorce, Divorcing Without a Principle is Very Hard for Women!

Love is the most extraordinary journey in life, holding hands is a very special memory. For some, holding hands leads to becoming lovers, partners, and lifelong family. For others, although they hold hands, become lovers, and partners, they ultimately do not become lifelong family. Everyone’s understanding of marriage is different. If we ask what people gain or lose from marriage, we believe different people will have different answers. Those who feel happy in marriage will feel that marriage provides a permanent safe haven for themselves and their loved ones, and that it continuously elevates their love. Those who feel unhappy in marriage may regret, saying that marriage is tiring and makes them lose their youth. And for those who divorce, it brings another kind of regret when looking back at the marriage!

March 4, 2025 5 min read

The 3 Difficulties for Remarried Couples, Overcome Them for Everlasting Love, Fail and Face Divorce…

Qian Zhongshu once said, “Marriage is like a walled city, with those outside wanting in and those inside wanting out.” Thinking about it now, that statement isn’t wrong. Marriage is a gamble for everyone. Win, and you might be happy for a lifetime. Lose, and you’ll suffer. This is especially true for remarried couples, who face various challenges. If they overcome these hurdles, they might grow old together. If not, they might end up parting ways.

February 22, 2025 4 min read

People Who Stay Single for a Long Time Do It by Choice

After starting work, I rarely see well-off, comfortable, and ambitious guys staying single. If they do, it’s usually because they want to. In this game of pursuit, boys have always been the ones in control. In high school, most boys were already crushing on girls, and vice versa. But back then, everyone was focused on the pretty, attractive, and high-achieving boys and girls. In everyone’s dreams, there are goddesses and gods, and you’ll find that they are also goddesses and gods to those around you.

February 18, 2025 5 min read

Breaking the Cycle: Zhang Guimei’s Mission to Educate Underprivileged Girls

Principal Zhang Guimei of Huaping Women’s High School recently told a student, when she came with her husband to donate, “Get out! I worked so hard to get you out of the mountainous area, but now you’ve become a full-time housewife.” Zhang, who is in her senior years, is the Party Secretary and Principal of Lijiang Huaping Women’s High School, as well as the Director of Huaping Children’s Welfare Institute. She is a “teacher mom” to students of all ethnic groups and a “real mom” to 136 orphans.

February 17, 2025 3 min read

Optimizing Your Personal Life Leads to a Successful Marriage

In traditional thinking, girls are often taught to focus on marrying into a good family to have a worry-free life. Even nowadays, when a girl doesn’t excel academically, the advice is to aim for an average level and marry a well-off husband. At work, if you are attractive and have a stable income, older colleagues will set you up with potential suitors. Many believe that as long as a woman has a stable income, good looks, and a good job, she should have no worries. While such cases exist, they are rare.

February 16, 2025 3 min read

If You Notice These Signs in Your Marriage, It’s Time to Rethink Your Relationship

Nietzsche once said, “Marriage is unhappy not because of a lack of love, but because of a lack of friendship.” Friendship requires mutual understanding, communication, and help. Without these, friendship is difficult to maintain. Marriage is the same. To achieve happiness, it requires joint effort and maintenance from both parties. Marriage hates laziness; the more you neglect it, the more it will make you feel unhappy. The emotions between spouses need to be maintained in a balanced and stable state. If you ignore it when you’re busy and try to pick it up when you’re free, it might be too late.

February 13, 2025 4 min read

How Do I Forgive Him After His Infidelity ?

Yesterday, I received a plea for help from my friend Jenny. She said her boyfriend cheated on her, and she can’t let go but doesn’t know how to forgive him? I truly understand what it feels like to be betrayed by a beloved person. I remember, not long after breaking up with my first love, he accepted another girl’s pursuit. Even though we had already broken up, we had been together for several years, and this carefree behavior made me feel that we really couldn’t be together again. It made me feel betrayed.

February 10, 2025 8 min read