Marriage

What Behaviors to Avoid When Just Getting to Know a Girl?

When making new friends, it’s best to avoid talking too deeply about personal matters. When starting to flirt with a girl, it’s best to avoid being too intrusive or thinking too far ahead. I’ve always emphasized that women have a strong defense mechanism when dealing with unfamiliar men. Unless you have extremely strong sexual appeal (tall, rich, and handsome), prematurely crossing boundaries will make a woman feel insecure. So, many women are resistant to men who are too familiar.

January 31, 2026 4 min read

Why Can’t Many Beautiful and Accomplished Women Find Partners?

1. The Dilemma of Pursuit Not many guys pursue beautiful and accomplished women because most honest guys don’t dare to pursue them. So, for these beautiful and accomplished women, if they don’t take the initiative, their options are very limited. 2. Beauty and Accomplishments Don’t Guarantee a Match Their single status isn’t directly related to their beauty and accomplishments. It’s about their own standards for a partner. With good qualities, it’s natural to seek an even better match.

January 27, 2026 5 min read

Don’t Let Your Partner Guess, Men Fear

As a woman, I agree with a saying: in love, women are naturally skilled at sending mixed signals. They think one thing but say another, and sometimes even say the opposite. Men sigh and say, “A woman’s heart is like a bottomless pit!” But I disagree with women using this as a way to control love: “The highest level of love is when you understand my mixed signals.” Indeed, two people who truly love each other, after getting through some rough patches, can reach a level of soulful communication. When a woman occasionally sends mixed signals, a man can correctly understand her hidden feelings. From this perspective, there’s nothing wrong with that statement.

January 22, 2026 6 min read

Not All Affairs Can Be Forgiven

If your marriage encounters an affair, almost everyone will advise you to “forgive them. Relationships are inevitably full of ups and downs and all sorts of problems. Forgiving them is also forgiving yourself…” So we often see that many people who have been betrayed almost immediately choose to forgive the other person without thinking. If they don’t, they feel like they are being narrow-minded and petty. If they don’t forgive, they feel like they are the ones destroying the marriage and not wanting to live a good life!

January 18, 2026 4 min read

Should Couples Peek at Each Other’s Phones? Three Married Women Give You a Warning

In today’s information age, phones have become indispensable tools for communication. There’s a saying that no woman can laugh after looking through a man’s phone. Although ironic, it serves as a reminder. Many couples argue after marriage, with phones being a part of the problem. Some believe that since couples are married, there are no secrets, so peeking at each other’s phones is normal. But should couples really peek at each other’s phones? These three women’s responses provide a warning.

January 2, 2026 3 min read

“I Didn’t Know My Ex-Wife Was a Gem Until We Got Divorced”

Marriage is not the ultimate destination of love. Sometimes, even after getting married, it doesn’t mean you’ll grow old together. Li Ao said, “A woman has only one way of looking at marriage, while a man has a thousand ways.” When a woman thinks about living a good life with a man, the man might not think the same way. That’s why people often say men have many tricks up their sleeves.

January 1, 2026 5 min read

Why do Good Girls Always Fall for Jerks?

The reason why someone is attractive is because their presence holds a rewarding significance for others. In Haruki Murakami’s classic novel “Norwegian Wood,” there is a character named Nagasawa. He is a very unique person. For example, he comes from a wealthy family, is intelligent and studious. While other students were busy enjoying themselves, he was already self-studying various languages, working towards his goal of becoming a diplomat. Not only that, he is also responsible and charming. When there are conflicts among students, he steps in to resolve them. When he speaks in a crowd, everyone is drawn to him.

December 23, 2025 5 min read

After Divorce, Who Will Regret—Men or Women? Different Answers from Men and Women

When it comes to marriage, we all start with beautiful expectations. However, marriage is full of ups and downs. Not many men and women can truly understand its essence and still be willing to persevere. Those who have divorced think they can choose another way of life and feel liberated. However, not everyone feels liberated after divorce. Sometimes, divorce is a regret for someone. Given the chance, who wouldn’t want a happy and fulfilling family? Who would choose divorce as the outcome unless absolutely necessary?

December 18, 2025 3 min read

Why Can Some People Maintain Long-term Attraction to the Opposite Sex?

The Difference Between Value and Attraction in Relationships Some people can maintain long-term attraction in relationships, while others lose their charm after a while, and some fail to attract the opposite sex at all. What exactly is the secret for those who can sustain long-term attraction? The Difference Between “Contributing Value” and “Attraction” Some say that providing value to the other person is essential for maintaining a long-term relationship, such as providing financial and career assistance, companionship and care in life, emotional support and comfort, helping with filial piety, raising children, and so on.

December 12, 2025 4 min read

The Most Useful 8 Tips for Dating

Don’t date someone who is emotionally abusive. Once you notice a flaw in your boyfriend’s character or negative habits, cut ties quickly. Many girls tend to soften their hearts and hold onto the hope that their boyfriends will change. But can a person’s nature really change so easily? If there’s violence once, there will be violence again. You won’t be the one who changes him. Once you start comparing with your boyfriend, the relationship will be almost over. Don’t compare yourself and him with other couples. Don’t say things like, “Someone’s boyfriend gave her a sports car for Valentine’s Day,” or “Someone’s boyfriend threw a proposal party.” Just vent to your friends about it. If you’re not happy, just find someone else. It’s unfair to force your boyfriend into a difficult position.

December 2, 2025 4 min read