Love

Feeling Secure and Confident: It Comes From Being Irreplaceable

In a relationship, the most direct and effective way to feel secure, confident, and empowered is to make yourself unique and irreplaceable. In this day and age, do you still think having love guarantees a stable marriage? Do you still expect a marriage certificate to hold onto a person? Whether it’s pure love or a marriage certificate, neither is a guarantee for a relationship or marriage. Because they can change anytime.

January 31, 2025 5 min read

The Dark Side of Love: Understanding Emotional Blackmail in Relationships

In the Name of Love: Kidnapping and Shackles “You don’t agree with me, you don’t love me enough…” “I work myself to death every day, all for the sake of providing for you, and this is how you treat me…” “All of this is for your own good…” “If you do this, I will never speak to you again…” These slogans using “love” as a justification may be familiar to us, and we usually associate love with delicacy, care, and tenderness. However, many times, it can also become a heavy shackle, suffocating us and causing us to bleed. If these words came from a stranger, we might fight back or ignore them, but once they come from those we love and who claim to love us, we often end up feeling helpless, resentful, and forced to compromise. Then we understand that some forms of love can indeed be very burdensome.

January 26, 2025 4 min read

How to Seduce Men: Just Pay Attention to These Two Things

“Testing gold with fire, testing women with gold, testing men with women.” Even the most handsome man can’t resist a woman’s tenderness and charm. Some men may seem immune to women, but that just means they haven’t met a formidable woman yet. With the right woman, any man could easily fall for her. When a man pursues a woman, he needs to be strategic. If a woman loves you but you approach her the wrong way, her perception of you may plummet.

January 24, 2025 3 min read

Why It’s Said That Women Shouldn’t Be Too Kind to Men?

Emotional experts say: “In a love that is not highly regarded, the only drawback is being too kind to each other.” Sometimes, love shouldn’t be overflowing. Allocate half of your love for others and reserve half for yourself. Although that’s the case, when someone truly falls in love with another person, they will endlessly lower their own bottom line for that person. Sometimes, they may even turn against their own family for that person.

January 20, 2025 6 min read

Middle-Aged Marriage: Reluctant Divorce, Separate Bedrooms as the Norm, Marriage in Name Only

In the office, after being married for over a decade, when everyone anxiously waited to leave work, George would calmly pour a glass of water and sit back at his desk. When asked why he didn’t leave, he would smile and say, “We’re an old married couple, no need to rush.” He would then browse the web or watch a show before leaving. George’s demeanor reminded people of many middle-aged couples who, after being together for so long, entered a calm phase where the spark was long gone. They appeared as a family from the outside but lacked intimacy.

January 18, 2025 4 min read

How Deeply a Man Loves You: These are the Best Answers, Don’t Disbelieve

How can you tell if a man loves you? Everyone will have a different answer to this question, because men express love in different ways. But a man’s love for you can’t be hidden. How deeply a man loves you, his actions are the best answer, don’t disbelieve. Mia and her boyfriend have been dating for a year. They were introduced by a friend. When they first met, the atmosphere between them was pretty awkward. The guy didn’t have much dating experience, so when he was pursuing Mia, he inevitably made some straight-guy moves.

January 17, 2025 5 min read

The True Colors of First Love: A Reflection on Youth

There’s a Kind of Love That Can’t Be Obtained, Not Because of Cowardice, But Because of Youth I once heard a song called “Waiting for One Minute”: This song tells the story of how I missed out on my past love, and the lyrics reveal my reluctance to let go of the other person. However, I’ve lost the opportunity now. Some people might be the right person for us, but we let them slip away because we didn’t know any better back then.

January 16, 2025 6 min read

Can You Tell If a Guy Is Marriageable by Having One Meal With Him?

Some people are just meant to be married, and you can tell right away. But when it comes to relationships, we often lack experience and get tricked. I was chatting with the matchmaker in our village. She’s been a matchmaker since she was in her 20s, and she’s very well-known in our city. My grandpa talked about her: “When I married your grandma, I used this matchmaker. Back then, she was about my age.”

January 14, 2025 4 min read

What Age of Woman Do Men Over 40 Like? Psychologists’ Answers Are Surprisingly Uniform

Many people think that men are more promiscuous and that they always prefer younger women. Zhang Ailing once said, “No woman is loved by a man solely because of her talent.” Men and women approach emotions and relationships differently. A woman in her teens may like a sunny and energetic young man, but in her 20s, she may prefer someone more mature. Later in life, she may like someone more stable and reliable.

January 13, 2025 3 min read

The Heartbreak of a Bride: The Words from the Groom’s Relative at the Wedding Ruined My Marriage

Every family has its own difficult scripture to recite, and in real life, we will encounter various problems and contradictions. Marriage is not just a matter between two people, but between two families. The phrase “men get married, women get married” is a very common phenomenon in real life. However, for a woman, marriage is a lifelong choice, and marrying the right person is happiness, while marrying the wrong person can only be torture.

January 11, 2025 4 min read