Love
The Art of Dealing with Men: Delayed Satisfaction
Bing, 24, has been married for over three years. Despite her young age, she has a deep understanding of how to maintain a happy marriage. After three years of marriage, Bing has continued to pursue her career, earning her husband’s respect. When friends asked her the secret to her happy marriage, Bing smiled and said, “There’s no secret. As a woman, you should never be too submissive to men. You should have your own opinions and not be swayed by what men say. Only then will men truly love you.”
How to Get Through the Bottleneck Period or Adjustment Period in a Relationship?
Managing the Transition from Romance to Companionship When a relationship moves from the passionate love stage to the adjustment period or bottleneck period, both parties may start to lose patience with each other’s flaws. As time spent together increases, so do conflicts and friction due to heightened dependence on each other, leading to frequent minor disagreements. How should this period be dealt with or resolved? First, let’s look at how the adjustment period and bottleneck period are defined. In his book “The Wisdom of Life,” Schopenhauer proposed the three basic elements that determine a person’s fate: What am I, what do I represent, and what do I possess? Based on this line of thinking, there are three fundamental questions that people need to answer in life: their relationship with the world, their relationship with others, and their relationship with themselves. Among these three questions, the relationship with oneself influences and dominates the relationship with the world and with others. When you enter into an intimate relationship with someone, this model needs to change. Your partner stands out from all other people, and “our relationship” becomes a new element in this model, with its position being equally important as “my relationship with myself.”
Most of the Time, We Like Someone Because of Our Own Flaws
The Pitfalls of Seeking Love to Fill Inner Emptiness In this world, only a very few relationships are based on the mutual attraction and growth of two independent and healthy individuals. Most people like someone because of their own troubles and flaws. For example, loneliness, deprivation, the need for rescue, or seeking parental figures. When unable to handle these issues, they seek someone to escape or fulfill themselves. And then, troubles continue to arise.
6 Signs That a Man is Interested in You
Frequently Stares at You The eyes are the windows to the soul and the easiest way to reveal affection. When a man gazes at you affectionately, you should know that he likes you. Good friends don’t often look at you with tender eyes. These kinds of guys are usually very gentle. When you’re with them, you won’t have to go through a lot of emotional ups and downs. They are like sunshine in your life, bringing you warmth and happiness.
Ph.D. Seeks Marriage, Sets Three Requirements, Mocked by Blind Date Man: “Can You Still Have Kids?”
In today’s era of open romance, the term “leftover woman” has long been accepted by the public. When a woman reaches 30 without getting married, it’s perfectly normal. Regardless of age, every woman should have the right to choose a partner without being eliminated by others. Meimei is 36 this year, a true female academic overachiever. She excelled in her studies and was even admitted to university directly. After completing her undergraduate degree, she pursued a Ph.D.
How Could You Not Feel Hatred for Someone Who Betrayed You?
Stay away from those who easily advise you to be generous, so that you won’t be struck by lightning because of them. This sentence actually makes a lot of sense. Encountering betrayal in a relationship, it’s normal to feel hatred and a desire for revenge. This is a normal reaction for anyone—to be hurt by someone for no reason, even a Buddha would probably roar like a lion. However, in reality, there are always so many people comforting you: Let it go, don’t dwell on it, why carry so much hatred all the time, why are you so narrow-minded, why not give others a chance…
How to Tell If a Guy Truly Loves You: 3 Things to Look Out For
Hugo once said, “The love that’s just starting out sees only life, but the love that lasts sees eternity.” Beautiful love always needs to be tested, and perhaps in real life, many women have a habit of constantly asking their men if they truly love them. At first, the guy might patiently answer, but as time goes on, he’ll start to get annoyed with this behavior. However, the underlying reason women ask this question is because they want to know if the guy truly loves them.
How to Overcome Relationship Doubt and Insecurity
Always Suspecting Boyfriend, Worried He Might Cheat Next Second, What to Do? Came across an interesting tweet: “Dreamt that my husband took a second wife, and the vinegar jar exploded in my dream. It was full of negative energy, which made me vent my anger at him all day!” I wonder what all the girls think after reading this tweet? This reminds me of a funny story: Tom wanted to hang a painting. He had nails but no hammer, and his neighbor had a hammer. So, he decided to borrow the hammer from his neighbor. Just then, he started to have doubts: What if the neighbor didn’t want to lend him the hammer?
Women Who Can Enter a Man’s “Dark Side” Will Make Men Love “Madly”
In life, we are often taught to love others, but rarely taught to love one person forever. Sometimes love fades away, relationships drift apart. Some women can reach deep into a man’s heart and understand his dark side, while others cannot. Most people show their best side to others and keep their dark side hidden. Smart women know a man’s dark side and how to deal with it. In love and marriage, there are skills to master. Women, being the vulnerable group, can easily get hurt emotionally. While not hurting others, they must protect themselves and learn how to capture a man’s heart.
When a Woman Comes Home, These Behaviors Often Mean She’s Seeing Someone Else
There’s an old saying, “Onlookers see more than players.” In this society, when one spouse is seeing someone else, it’s always the outsiders who know first, and the husband or wife is usually the last to find out. These so-called “onlookers” don’t know how to warn the other party to protect themselves, or how to prevent them from getting hurt, so they usually choose to kindly keep it a secret.
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