Lessons

Those Who Get Hurt in Love Are Often Clueless About These Three Principles, Don’t Be Naive

Only selfless love is true. Perhaps everyone has their own scars when facing love, and some people get hurt in love because they don’t know how to cherish happiness. Many people get love but don’t appreciate it, and many others envy those who have it. This is the paradox of love. Pingping and her boyfriend had been dating for two years, introduced by friends. At first, the guy treated Pingping very well, showing great care for her, which touched her heart.

February 20, 2025 3 min read

Which is More Comfortable, First Marriage or Second Marriage?

Three Second Marriage Couples Share Their “Secrets” I recently came across a video on a platform. It was about an old monk writing a pair of couplets. The couplet reads: “Life often doesn’t go as planned, just seek half contentment in everything.” This sentence highlights that life can be tough, so don’t strive for perfection in everything or expect to have it all. Being half content is already good enough.

October 17, 2024 3 min read

Middle-aged Divorced Couples, Whose Later Life is More Miserable?

Love is the process of marriage; marriage is the goal of love.—Schopenhauer When it comes to marriage, everyone has high hopes. But in reality, not every marriage turns out to be as perfect as imagined. Some couples can share joy but not hardship, a common phenomenon in real life. The fundamental reason why some marriages end is often due to a lack of love. So, when people reach middle age and divorce, who will have a more miserable later life? These three experienced individuals provide honest insights.

May 1, 2023 4 min read