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Optimizing Your Personal Life Leads to a Successful Marriage

In traditional thinking, girls are often taught to focus on marrying into a good family to have a worry-free life. Even nowadays, when a girl doesn’t excel academically, the advice is to aim for an average level and marry a well-off husband. At work, if you are attractive and have a stable income, older colleagues will set you up with potential suitors. Many believe that as long as a woman has a stable income, good looks, and a good job, she should have no worries. While such cases exist, they are rare.

February 16, 2025 3 min read

The Couple Who Can’t Get Along But Can’t Leave Each Other, Let’s Do This

In “Fortress Besieged,” it is said: “Marriage is like a fortress, with people outside wanting to get in and those inside wanting to get out.” Before marriage, looking into each other’s eyes was all about brightness, but after marriage, it’s all impatience. Before marriage, the couple experienced romance and many adventures together; after marriage, the daily grind weighed them down. Single people long for marriage, while married people yearn for the single life.

August 5, 2024 3 min read