Gratitude

To be honest, most couples settle for each other

A fulfilling marriage only exists when both the husband and wife turn a blind eye and a deaf ear to each other. As Franklin said, “Before marriage, keep your eyes wide open; after marriage, half shut.” Life is never perfect. We all seek partial contentment. Love and marriage have their beautiful sides, but they are not flawless. Just like precious gems, human emotions also have their flaws. Perhaps you always see other marriages as perfect, with harmonious couples, while only feeling dissatisfied with your own family.

February 19, 2024 4 min read

From Estrangement to Father, Perhaps Another Kind of Fulfillment

I once read: “A father’s love is like a mountain, towering and intimidating, making people hesitant to climb; a father’s love is like the sky, broad and profound, making me look up and feel pity without daring to howl; a father’s love is like a river, slender and flowing, making me hesitant to wade.” I often hear people say “strict mother and stern father.” It’s because of the seriousness of the father that many people are close to their mothers but distant from their fathers.

December 22, 2023 5 min read