Empowerment

The “First Time” in a Woman’s Eyes, with a Sense of Inferiority that Has Troubled Me for a Long…

When I first talked about love with him, I thought it was easy to be with someone. Since we could be sincere and genuine, we could naturally be together with all our hearts. I used to think it was simple, willing to love him with all my heart. Like a moth to a flame, I got hurt later on. From loving him to being hopeless and leaving him, the emotional changes were too fast.

July 12, 2025 7 min read

Grandma Says: Giving Dowry is Necessary, and the Real Beneficiary of Marriage is the Man

Marriage and whether to give dowry have always been a controversial topic. Most men are against it, thinking it’s the 21st century and women advocate for equality, so why is equality suddenly not mentioned when it comes to marriage? On the other hand, women believe that dowry represents respect and sincerity from the man’s family, and it’s a form of security for themselves. Through dowry, they can see if the man’s feelings are genuine.

March 26, 2025 5 min read

Optimizing Your Personal Life Leads to a Successful Marriage

In traditional thinking, girls are often taught to focus on marrying into a good family to have a worry-free life. Even nowadays, when a girl doesn’t excel academically, the advice is to aim for an average level and marry a well-off husband. At work, if you are attractive and have a stable income, older colleagues will set you up with potential suitors. Many believe that as long as a woman has a stable income, good looks, and a good job, she should have no worries. While such cases exist, they are rare.

February 16, 2025 3 min read