Emotional

Don’t Be Kind to Those Who Have Harmed You

There’s an old saying that goes: “Forgive others as you would have them forgive you.” But as I grew up, I realized that letting some people off the hook for how they treat you can only drag you into a mess. It’s important to forgive, but it’s also important to distinguish right from wrong. You can learn to endure, but you shouldn’t always be a pushover. When it comes to people who have hurt you, there’s no need to hold a grudge or seek revenge, but sometimes there’s no need to be merciful either.

February 22, 2024 4 min read

Women Who Are Truly “Devoted” Only “Fall” For One Person

I’ve been dating my girlfriend for three years. We were college classmates and our relationship was pretty good back then. But after graduation, we were sent to different cities, so we became a long-distance couple. Maybe because we saw a lot of people, our relationship got weaker. I tried really hard, but it was no use. Now we’ve chosen to break up. Everyone has different choices in love, but I want to say that women who are truly devoted often only fall for one person. Only devoted women understand these truths.

February 17, 2024 4 min read

In the Later Half of a Woman’s Life, It’s Not About Marriage, But About These 3 “Trump Cards”

Older generations often say that no matter how strong a woman is, she will eventually get married, and it’s better to marry a good husband than to do well in her career. Being able to hold hands with the one you love for a lifetime and live worry-free in marriage is indeed the dream of many women. But life is not a fairy tale, and happiness is not always easily obtained.

February 15, 2024 5 min read

Facing Emotional Betrayal, You Need to Find Inner Strength

When emotional betrayal occurs, a person’s inner self is actually weak and powerless. On one hand, the betrayal hurts the soul; on the other hand, it makes you feel hopeless about the future. So, no matter what the outcome of this emotional experience is, the first thing to resolve is the issue of inner energy. In other words, how can you inject energy into your inner self and make yourself strong enough to face all this?

February 13, 2024 4 min read

Judging Whether a Man is Suitable for Marriage, Don’t Listen to What He Says, Just Look at These…

In life, there are many women who are suitable as partners but not as wives. Many men treat women exceptionally well during dating, but when it comes to marriage, they don’t choose these women. Men are more rational, so their criteria for choosing a partner differ from choosing a wife. Women often lose their direction in love, making it hard to differentiate between good and bad men. Sometimes, even if the man is not good, women choose him because they value emotions greatly.

February 9, 2024 4 min read

After Ending a Marriage, Choosing to Be Single or Pursue a New Relationship

When it comes to marriage, divorce is always a possibility. So, how do those who have gone through divorce view marriage and relationships? The best answer I’ve heard is this: I still wish happiness for those in happy marriages, but I am content with a single life. For those who have been divorced, they probably understand that marriage is just one way of life. Whether to divorce depends not only on fate but also on what kind of life one wants.

February 8, 2024 4 min read

Overcoming the Resentment Trap: A Crucial Step in Restoring a Relationship

Falling into this Pitfall while Trying to Salvage the Relationship Will Definitely Make the Other Party Ignore You Completely During the process of salvaging a relationship, there is a pitfall that, once fallen into, will absolutely drive the other party away from you. It’s just a matter of time. This pitfall is often triggered by the other party’s slight “indifference” towards you, and ultimately leads to the disintegration of the relationship.

December 27, 2023 6 min read

From Estrangement to Father, Perhaps Another Kind of Fulfillment

I once read: “A father’s love is like a mountain, towering and intimidating, making people hesitant to climb; a father’s love is like the sky, broad and profound, making me look up and feel pity without daring to howl; a father’s love is like a river, slender and flowing, making me hesitant to wade.” I often hear people say “strict mother and stern father.” It’s because of the seriousness of the father that many people are close to their mothers but distant from their fathers.

December 22, 2023 5 min read

In Bed, This Is How Men Show Love

In relationships, women often wonder: Does he really love me? How much does he love me? Nowadays, everything is about efficiency, even dating. Being in a relationship for over three months without physical intimacy is considered slow. Not only women, but men themselves may not always be clear about whether their passion contains love or is just hormonal impulses. The shorter the time of knowing each other, the harder it is to distinguish.

December 19, 2023 4 min read

Why Do Couples Whose Relationship Has Broken Find It Hard to Part Amicably

If a couple’s relationship has truly broken down, then parting amicably is actually the best outcome. Parting amicably is a way to respect the many years of feelings in the past and to protect the children as much as possible. However, parting amicably is often just an ideal state or a beautiful fantasy in people’s minds, based on the assumption of “good human nature.” In reality, most couples find it difficult to part amicably.

August 12, 2023 3 min read