Divorce

Why is it Hard for Midway Couples to Connect? Listen to Three Experienced People Have to Say

“We can never go back.” In real life, we all face marriage with expectations, but often love leads to sorrow, and not all relationships last forever. After experiencing a failed marriage, we become more cautious about love, afraid to easily give our hearts. Why is it difficult for midway couples to connect emotionally? Let’s hear from three experienced individuals. Miss Smith, 32 years old It’s been three months since my divorce. After the divorce, I met him. Even though I thought we would get along well, we had many conflicts, especially regarding our child. I chose not to have more children out of fear for my child’s safety, causing a major disagreement between us. He saw it as selfish, but my intention was solely for the child. This led to conflicts and eventually a cold war. Later, I realized that remarried couples also have their own hesitations, with children being a significant obstacle.

February 21, 2024 3 min read

After Ending a Marriage, Choosing to Be Single or Pursue a New Relationship

When it comes to marriage, divorce is always a possibility. So, how do those who have gone through divorce view marriage and relationships? The best answer I’ve heard is this: I still wish happiness for those in happy marriages, but I am content with a single life. For those who have been divorced, they probably understand that marriage is just one way of life. Whether to divorce depends not only on fate but also on what kind of life one wants.

February 8, 2024 4 min read

Why Do Couples Whose Relationship Has Broken Find It Hard to Part Amicably

If a couple’s relationship has truly broken down, then parting amicably is actually the best outcome. Parting amicably is a way to respect the many years of feelings in the past and to protect the children as much as possible. However, parting amicably is often just an ideal state or a beautiful fantasy in people’s minds, based on the assumption of “good human nature.” In reality, most couples find it difficult to part amicably.

August 12, 2023 3 min read

“Son Finally Divorced, So Happy” Mother-in-law Got Slapped in the Face a Month Later

When we were young, we thought life was simple, and we believed that love would last forever, and marriage would be a lifelong partnership. However, as we experienced life, we realized that many things were just one-sided fantasies, and love wasn’t the only thing that mattered in marriage, and marriage wasn’t the only thing that mattered in life. We were too young and naive, thinking that being with the one we loved was the most important thing, and that we could overcome all difficulties as long as we were together.

May 3, 2023 6 min read

Middle-aged Divorced Couples, Whose Later Life is More Miserable?

Love is the process of marriage; marriage is the goal of love.—Schopenhauer When it comes to marriage, everyone has high hopes. But in reality, not every marriage turns out to be as perfect as imagined. Some couples can share joy but not hardship, a common phenomenon in real life. The fundamental reason why some marriages end is often due to a lack of love. So, when people reach middle age and divorce, who will have a more miserable later life? These three experienced individuals provide honest insights.

May 1, 2023 4 min read