Divorce

Do Men Miss Their Ex-wives After Divorce? Insights from Three Men

A few years ago, there was an advertisement slogan that said: “Fate is predetermined, but happiness is up to you.” Many people get together with someone due to fate, feeling incredibly happy and fortunate in the beginning. However, over time, things fade, and if a marriage isn’t nurtured well, it may come to an end. It’s often easier to conquer than to maintain, just like relationships. Sometimes, a simple gathering or trip can bring two people together. But staying together requires effort.

March 17, 2025 4 min read

Women Should Never Initiate Divorce, Divorcing Without a Principle is Very Hard for Women!

Love is the most extraordinary journey in life, holding hands is a very special memory. For some, holding hands leads to becoming lovers, partners, and lifelong family. For others, although they hold hands, become lovers, and partners, they ultimately do not become lifelong family. Everyone’s understanding of marriage is different. If we ask what people gain or lose from marriage, we believe different people will have different answers. Those who feel happy in marriage will feel that marriage provides a permanent safe haven for themselves and their loved ones, and that it continuously elevates their love. Those who feel unhappy in marriage may regret, saying that marriage is tiring and makes them lose their youth. And for those who divorce, it brings another kind of regret when looking back at the marriage!

March 4, 2025 5 min read

How Do I Forgive Him After His Infidelity ?

Yesterday, I received a plea for help from my friend Jenny. She said her boyfriend cheated on her, and she can’t let go but doesn’t know how to forgive him? I truly understand what it feels like to be betrayed by a beloved person. I remember, not long after breaking up with my first love, he accepted another girl’s pursuit. Even though we had already broken up, we had been together for several years, and this carefree behavior made me feel that we really couldn’t be together again. It made me feel betrayed.

February 10, 2025 8 min read

Encountering Infidelity, the Most Perplexing Issue

When a marriage encounters infidelity, a series of problems arise, each one trapping you. This complexity in dealing with and handling the affair is beyond the capability of most people. For the betrayed party, the four most concerning and difficult questions are: First, Does he still love me? Does he still have feelings for me? The answer to this question is, there is still some love and feelings. However, you must understand that:

February 5, 2025 4 min read

Middle-Aged Marriage: Reluctant Divorce, Separate Bedrooms as the Norm, Marriage in Name Only

In the office, after being married for over a decade, when everyone anxiously waited to leave work, George would calmly pour a glass of water and sit back at his desk. When asked why he didn’t leave, he would smile and say, “We’re an old married couple, no need to rush.” He would then browse the web or watch a show before leaving. George’s demeanor reminded people of many middle-aged couples who, after being together for so long, entered a calm phase where the spark was long gone. They appeared as a family from the outside but lacked intimacy.

January 18, 2025 4 min read

Signs of the End of a Marriage, It’s Just These Two Points, No Mistake

Many things are the straw that breaks the camel’s back. Sudden events seem fated, but there were signs long ago. Many couples are on the rocks, just like a song by Wang Fei; their fate has faded, yet they still live under one roof. There are signs of the end of fate, and some things are better discovered early. No Longer Caring About Each Other There’s a poem that goes:

January 15, 2025 4 min read

The Heartbreak of a Bride: The Words from the Groom’s Relative at the Wedding Ruined My Marriage

Every family has its own difficult scripture to recite, and in real life, we will encounter various problems and contradictions. Marriage is not just a matter between two people, but between two families. The phrase “men get married, women get married” is a very common phenomenon in real life. However, for a woman, marriage is a lifelong choice, and marrying the right person is happiness, while marrying the wrong person can only be torture.

January 11, 2025 4 min read

Three Stages of an Affair: If You Encounter the Third Stage, Get a Divorce

Xi Murong said, “Marriage isn’t just about two people facing each other. Marriage is about two people holding hands and facing the world together.” When people get married, they usually understand this principle and strive to achieve it. Unfortunately, as time goes by, everything becomes routine, and this goal becomes blurry. Some people start to regret their marriage. Some people start comparing their families. Some people regret that their love seems to have faded.

December 24, 2024 4 min read

Why Are More and More People Unwilling to Get Married?

I was chatting with a few friends, and we started talking about marriage, kids, and retirement. Two of my friends are already married with kids. They both agreed on marriage, saying, “I’m married, so I wouldn’t easily advise others to get married. I’ve had kids, so I wouldn’t easily advise others to have kids.” Hearing this, the rest of us felt awkward. Those who were about to get married started doubting themselves, wondering if they should get married. Those who didn’t have a boyfriend thought it was actually pretty good being single.

November 15, 2024 6 min read

Which is More Comfortable, First Marriage or Second Marriage?

Three Second Marriage Couples Share Their “Secrets” I recently came across a video on a platform. It was about an old monk writing a pair of couplets. The couplet reads: “Life often doesn’t go as planned, just seek half contentment in everything.” This sentence highlights that life can be tough, so don’t strive for perfection in everything or expect to have it all. Being half content is already good enough.

October 17, 2024 3 min read
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