Couples

Facing Betrayal in Relationships, Communication is Actually Ineffective

If you experience betrayal in a relationship and seek advice from counselors who only understand theories, they will likely analyze that betrayal is a result of communication issues between spouses. They will suggest that you should just communicate with your partner, and as long as both of you can communicate well, everything will be fine. However, when you try to communicate with your partner, they either ignore you or continue to deceive you, making communication futile. Eventually, you might even start doubting your own communication abilities.

April 6, 2025 5 min read

People Who Stay Single for a Long Time Do It by Choice

After starting work, I rarely see well-off, comfortable, and ambitious guys staying single. If they do, it’s usually because they want to. In this game of pursuit, boys have always been the ones in control. In high school, most boys were already crushing on girls, and vice versa. But back then, everyone was focused on the pretty, attractive, and high-achieving boys and girls. In everyone’s dreams, there are goddesses and gods, and you’ll find that they are also goddesses and gods to those around you.

February 18, 2025 5 min read

Middle-Aged Marriage: Reluctant Divorce, Separate Bedrooms as the Norm, Marriage in Name Only

In the office, after being married for over a decade, when everyone anxiously waited to leave work, George would calmly pour a glass of water and sit back at his desk. When asked why he didn’t leave, he would smile and say, “We’re an old married couple, no need to rush.” He would then browse the web or watch a show before leaving. George’s demeanor reminded people of many middle-aged couples who, after being together for so long, entered a calm phase where the spark was long gone. They appeared as a family from the outside but lacked intimacy.

January 18, 2025 4 min read

If You Often Have 3 Three Feelings, Someone Might Be Secretly Crushing on You, Don’t Be Clueless

Love isn’t necessarily at its best during the passionate moments; it can also be in the hazy phase before both parties reveal their feelings. Many people are timid in love. They dare not express their affections but instead keep that love hidden in their hearts, yet they subtly reveal traces of it in their interactions. You can’t hide loving someone; even if you don’t say it, it will show in your eyes.

January 10, 2025 4 min read

What Kind of Couples Can Stay Together for a Long Time

Couples who can stay together for a long time must meet one of the following four principles: 1. Common Life Goals Many couples who break up after a few months are essentially just enjoying the benefits of the honeymoon period. Once the passion fades, they go their separate ways. When two people are together, they are essentially forming a small team. Why form a team? It’s to achieve something that one person alone cannot achieve, creating a synergy effect.

December 19, 2024 5 min read

6 Signs That a Man is Interested in You

Frequently Stares at You The eyes are the windows to the soul and the easiest way to reveal affection. When a man gazes at you affectionately, you should know that he likes you. Good friends don’t often look at you with tender eyes. These kinds of guys are usually very gentle. When you’re with them, you won’t have to go through a lot of emotional ups and downs. They are like sunshine in your life, bringing you warmth and happiness.

August 4, 2024 3 min read

A Honest Woman Wouldn’t Do These 3 Things, No Need to Test, You Can Understand by Observing…

In our impression, honest people seem to be labeled as “naive, gullible, indecisive, incompetent, and unambitious,” but in my understanding, honest people should be a commendatory term, referring to those who are “conscientious, reliable, honest, not greedy, and kindhearted.” In real life, most people want to find an honest person to live a decent life, but they are also afraid of being deceived by the superficial honesty of others, which may hinder their own happiness.

February 16, 2024 4 min read

Middle-aged Divorced Couples, Whose Later Life is More Miserable?

Love is the process of marriage; marriage is the goal of love.—Schopenhauer When it comes to marriage, everyone has high hopes. But in reality, not every marriage turns out to be as perfect as imagined. Some couples can share joy but not hardship, a common phenomenon in real life. The fundamental reason why some marriages end is often due to a lack of love. So, when people reach middle age and divorce, who will have a more miserable later life? These three experienced individuals provide honest insights.

May 1, 2023 4 min read