Appreciation

“I Didn’t Know My Ex-Wife Was a Gem Until We Got Divorced”

Marriage is not the ultimate destination of love. Sometimes, even after getting married, it doesn’t mean you’ll grow old together. Li Ao said, “A woman has only one way of looking at marriage, while a man has a thousand ways.” When a woman thinks about living a good life with a man, the man might not think the same way. That’s why people often say men have many tricks up their sleeves.

January 1, 2026 5 min read

Don’t Wait Until You Lose Them to Appreciate, the One You Can Rely On Is the One Who Dislikes You…

Qian Zhongshu once wrote in his book “The Besieged City”: “Those who are trapped in the city want to escape, while those outside want to rush in. This is the case with marriage and career, as people’s desires often contradict each other.” When it comes to love and marriage, we often use the phrase “cherish” to advise others and ourselves. Because we all know that the future is full of uncertainties. Even if two people love each other today and vow to be together for life, they may still drift apart tomorrow.

November 26, 2025 4 min read