Affairs

Encountering Infidelity, the Most Perplexing Issue

When a marriage encounters infidelity, a series of problems arise, each one trapping you. This complexity in dealing with and handling the affair is beyond the capability of most people. For the betrayed party, the four most concerning and difficult questions are: First, Does he still love me? Does he still have feelings for me? The answer to this question is, there is still some love and feelings. However, you must understand that:

February 5, 2025 4 min read

People Who Have Extramarital Affairs Will Have Less Fortune, Don’t Doubt It

What does marriage mean to you? Different people may have different answers to this question, but in any case, loyalty is crucial in marriage. If you can’t even do the basics, you won’t find happiness even if you get married. Li Tao, 30 years old, recently divorced his wife due to relationship issues. After the divorce, his life didn’t get better but worse. When he was young, he was broke. When they first met, he had nothing.

January 6, 2025 4 min read

Facing Infidelity, the Road is Exceptionally Difficult and a Solo Battle

Facing the betrayal of emotions, everyone must learn to be strong. This road is exceptionally difficult and often a solo battle. Feelings of helplessness and confusion are nothing compared to the enduring heartache and unresolved issues that leave everlasting scars. No matter what you encounter, you must learn to be strong on your own. Growing up is all about gradually enduring hardships and challenges. Believe that there is nothing you can’t overcome.

January 5, 2025 4 min read

Extramarital Affairs: Most People Can’t Find True Love, Unfortunately Many Don’t Understand

Some say: “Loving you is a warm memory, a romantic feeling, a sweet attitude, a bitter wait, and an inexplicable inner passion!” Love is wonderful, but sometimes it can be troublesome. Being in a hidden relationship requires patience. Some people wait a long time after encountering extramarital affairs, only to realize they have been deceived in the end. In reality, most extramarital affairs don’t lead to true love, yet some people remain obstinate.

December 26, 2024 4 min read

Whose Fault is Betrayal, Definitely the One Betraying the Relationship, Not You who Suffer Betrayal

“Don’t punish yourself for others’ mistakes”—this is a principle everyone understands and accepts. However, when faced with betrayal, many people still fall into a paradox. When it comes to experiencing betrayal in a relationship, whose fault is it—you who suffered betrayal or the one who betrayed you? The answer is crystal clear: it’s definitely the other person’s fault, without a doubt. This is a must in dealing with betrayal. If you can’t even determine whose fault the betrayal is, then it’s impossible to handle the betrayal properly.

November 27, 2024 4 min read

The Dilemma of Betrayal in Relationships: Why Is It So Hard to Let Go?

On a practical and objective level, what causes the difficulty in letting go after emotional betrayal? 1. Reluctance to give up existing benefits: Betrayal, in a way, is a form of possessing a special interest relationship. This possession, though unethical, doesn’t pose much of a psychological barrier if one disregards morals. Without moral constraints, most people would not refuse betrayal because it benefits them psychologically, physically, and emotionally. Due to these existing benefits, they are unwilling to let go and especially not willing to do so voluntarily. The end of a betrayal relationship usually only occurs in two common situations: internal division or when the losses outweigh the gains.

October 20, 2024 3 min read

Encountering Infidelity, It Can Be a New Starting Point in Life

Encountering betrayal in a relationship can indeed affect the course of one’s life, but such impact may not always be negative. While enduring the pain and torment at the moment, many people have actually embarked on a new journey through the baptism of betrayal. Looking at it from a different perspective, without the betrayal, many people might have led a monotonous life, following the same routine every day, seemingly stable but lacking passion and vision for the future. Days passing by in repetition, just waiting to grow old.

October 13, 2024 3 min read

The Unfiltered Voices of Women: Understanding the Dynamics of Extramarital Affairs

Why Do Women Have Extramarital Affairs? Listen to Their Truth! Understanding the Reasons Behind Women’s Infidelity in Marriage Marriage is the union of love and intimacy. If a woman marries a man she loves and leads a happy life, she won’t want to betray him. When a woman has an affair, it’s often because she feels neglected by her husband, thinks he no longer loves her, or is disappointed in the marriage.

August 8, 2024 4 min read

When a Woman Comes Home, These Behaviors Often Mean She’s Seeing Someone Else

There’s an old saying, “Onlookers see more than players.” In this society, when one spouse is seeing someone else, it’s always the outsiders who know first, and the husband or wife is usually the last to find out. These so-called “onlookers” don’t know how to warn the other party to protect themselves, or how to prevent them from getting hurt, so they usually choose to kindly keep it a secret.

June 15, 2024 5 min read