Signs of Lack of Interest from Blind Date
When single men and women reach a certain age and don’t have suitable partners around them, they may have to resort to blind dates.
Maybe they actively go on blind dates to find their destined one, hoping for a successful match. Or maybe they feel pressured by those around them and reluctantly agree to meet some potential partners, hoping to get lucky.
Regardless of the reasons, blind dating has become very common.
Some people may find blind dates awkward, but as long as you meet the right person, it doesn’t really matter how you met.
Blind dates may seem practical, but ultimately, it’s just a way to expand your social circle and give yourself another chance.
In this process, the most important thing is to be able to judge in time whether the other person is interested in taking things further, so as not to miss out easily and to avoid getting ahead of yourself.
Of course, it’s not hard to tell if the person you went on a blind date with is not interested in you. Their behavior will be pretty direct.
They don’t contact you after exchanging contact information.
A friend of mine was introduced to a man by her relatives, but after he added her on Skype, he never initiated a chat with her, as if they were never friends on there.
She was puzzled as to why he acted this way, but soon she saw him announcing his love life and upcoming marriage on his moments.
There are times when someone has your contact information but never initiates a conversation with you.
Maybe he’s enjoying single life and isn’t looking for a relationship, maybe he’s already interested in someone else and doesn’t have the intention to pursue you, or maybe after learning more about you, he realized you’re not what he’s looking for.
Regardless of the reason, if someone doesn’t take the initiative, you don’t need to think too much. He’s just not interested in getting to know you.
If he wants to get to know you, he will gather the courage to do so, even if he’s inexperienced. If he’s not interested, he won’t bother.
They are always distant when you’re together.
In some blind dates, even after getting to know each other, it’s clear that one person is always the one making an effort to connect. But the other person remains distant.
For example, they rarely share things about themselves and show no curiosity about you or your life. Their coldness shows that they are not really interested in getting to know you.
Whether someone likes you or not, their natural reactions are always genuine and cannot be faked.
Someone who is interested in you will be open and willing to share, and will want to know everything about you. But if they’re not interested, they will be dismissive.
They refuse to meet and don’t want to take things further.
Even in blind dating, adults usually want to meet in person after chatting for a while.
Chatting on the phone has its limits, and people usually want to meet and see each other in person before deciding to continue developing the relationship.
Someone who is interested in meeting you will be eager to do so. They will be just as eager as you to see each other and will actively arrange a meeting.
If someone is unwilling to meet, no matter how much you try, even after knowing each other for a long time, they may not have genuine reasons for not meeting.
Don’t waste your time on someone who doesn’t want to meet you. It’s unlikely that there will be any development between you. If they don’t see anything in you now, they won’t in the future. They have other thoughts.
When someone doesn’t like you, don’t doubt yourself and think it’s because you’re not good enough.
Even if you’re great, if they don’t want a relationship or have someone else in mind, they won’t want to get close to you.
Always remember, you are worthy of love. It’s not your fault.
Blind dating is just a chance to meet someone new; it doesn’t guarantee success.
So, just keep an open mind. Even if you meet many unsuitable matches on blind dates, believe that there will be one time when you’ll meet someone with whom you’ll truly connect.
