Rejecting Someone Who Chased You for 10 Years: “Earning $30,000 a Month, Deserves Me” “Who Wants…
Love is humble, very humble, if the other person doesn’t love you.
In reality, such love stories are everywhere. I love you, but you love her. Even though I know the person you love isn’t me, and maybe will never love me, I still want to try my best to make you fall in love with me.
Often, the person who treats you the best is also the easiest to bully. Women in the world always bully the man who treats them the best.
The furthest distance is not when we are far apart, but when the person you love is right in front of you, yet it’s not me.
Unrequited love is very painful. Even though I know you don’t love me, I still want to treat you well and care for you all the time. Even though I know you’ve fallen for someone else, I still want to wait for the day you turn back and see my goodness.
In love, waiting is the most pointless thing. Someone who truly loves you won’t make you wait.
Emily is a very pretty girl. With her good looks, she naturally has many admirers. Among them, the one who pursued her for the longest time is her high school classmate, Jack, for almost ten years.
Jack is actually good-looking, did well in school, but came from a poor family.
Because of this, although Emily had some feelings for Jack, she rejected him several times because she was worried about being poor in the future, feeling that Jack’s background didn’t match hers.
Emily always thought that with her looks, it would be easy to find a man who treats her well and has good financial stability.
Later, as she wished, she found a man with very good financial conditions, whose family was in business. If they got married, his family could buy them a house separately.
Emily thought that by marrying him, she could live the life of a rich lady and be envied by others. To her surprise, her husband was rich but unfaithful. Just two years into the marriage, he was tired of her and had ambiguous relationships with several other women.
Proud Emily couldn’t bear this and asked for a divorce, which he readily agreed to.
Thinking that being a divorced woman, most men wouldn’t accept her. Coincidentally, Emily heard from a friend that her ex-boyfriend Jack was still unmarried, without even a girlfriend, and now his salary was quite impressive.
Considering Jack had pursued her for ten years, Emily regretted a bit. She contacted Jack and after chatting, she said, “Earning $30,000 a month, now I’m suitable for you.”
To her surprise, Jack didn’t dwell on the past at all and directly said, “Who wants secondhand goods.”
This sentence directly knocked Emily down, leaving her devastated.
Love is ultimately a matter of mutual feelings. You can’t keep someone who doesn’t love you, nor would you want to keep someone who no longer loves you, just pitying you.
Don’t overestimate yourself. Don’t think someone who loves you will always wait for you, allowing you to trample over them.
Even if someone loves you for ten years, it doesn’t mean they will continue to love you in the future.
“Time is always a bystander. We must take responsibility for all processes and results ourselves.”
Since you already rejected the person who chased you for ten years, be prepared for the consequences of no one loving you anymore. If you’ve had your fun or see others are capable, then going back is like actively inviting ridicule.
Perhaps others regret not getting you, but seeing your hypocrisy, they will go from regret to relief. In their hearts, you are no longer worth loving.
No matter how much you like or love someone, love should have boundaries and dignity.
Remember: Love that makes you lose your boundaries isn’t love, and emotions that make you lose your dignity aren’t emotions. Love is between two people; lasting relationships require two hearts to interact. Love’s bottom line is dignity. Choosing someone you don’t love tramples on their dignity. Choosing someone who doesn’t love you tramples on your dignity.
One day, when you look back, the most painful thing won’t be lost love but lost dignity. We have all done foolish things for love, but real love is not begged for!
For Emily, she didn’t truly love Jack. She just thought that since he loved her for ten years, now that she reached out to him, he would be overjoyed.
For Jack, after ten years of love without a response, he understood that Emily would never love him. Even if he got her, he wouldn’t have her heart. In that case, why lose his dignity and let others trample on him?
If you can’t get the love you want, hold onto your dignity.
The right person will eventually appear in your world, bringing you happiness and joy.
