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When a Woman Truly Loves Someone, She Doesn’t Make the First Move—She Waits to Be “Hit On”

There’s a line in the movie “Shrek” where Shrek says: “If you like someone, you gotta tell them.” Even though Shrek is an ugly monster and the person he likes is a princess, he’s still brave enough to be with her. This shows that sometimes, a guy is bolder than a girl, especially in love. In a TV show, actress Jenny had a crush on the male lead. But she was a girl, so she was too scared to approach him. She would even take a detour if she saw him coming.

January 2, 2025 5 min read

Dealing with Betrayal in Relationships: Avoid Indecisiveness

When faced with betrayal in relationships and marriage, handling and addressing the situation can be complex. Especially when it involves family, children, and one’s future happiness, careful consideration is necessary. However, many people often find themselves stuck in a dilemma when dealing with betrayal in relationships and marriage. They struggle to resolve the issue because of their own indecisiveness—and in relationships, nothing is worse than being indecisive. When it comes to dealing with betrayal in relationships, the ultimate choices boil down to two options: either forgive and move on, or let go.

January 1, 2025 4 min read

Don’t Be Too Sentimental in Middle Age

In the TV series “Love’s Centimeter,” Lan Qiaoqiao is a cunning woman who takes advantage of Chen Zhijun’s emotional vulnerability. Chen Zhijun is unhappy with his wife, Guan Duoyun, because she is too focused on her family. Lan Qiaoqiao sees an opportunity and pretends to care for Chen Zhijun, making him feel loved. She then asks him for money, claiming her father is ill and needs medical treatment. Chen Zhijun believes her and gives her the money. Eventually, he wants to divorce his wife and be with Lan Qiaoqiao, only to realize he has been deceived.

December 31, 2024 5 min read

Why Is Blind Dating Harder to Form “Feelings” Than Free Love?

Let’s talk about what girls have been talking about all along, “feelings.” It’s actually sexual impulse. It’s the most primal instinct, the reproductive impulse that arises from the heart. Of course, it doesn’t necessarily have to be handsome, that’s too narrow. It could also be about having leadership, assertiveness, insight, experience, talent, status. And this can’t be forced; it can only be evoked internally. Trying to persuade yourself with logic is useless.

December 30, 2024 5 min read

The Most Difficult Heart Knot—Why Did I Experience Emotional Betrayal

From experiencing betrayal to finally completing the healing process, it’s almost a necessary emotional journey for those who have experienced betrayal in relationships. However, different people are at different stages in this journey. At the beginning of betrayal, you probably only care about whether the person who hurt you still loves you. You may only focus on how to handle this relationship or marriage. At this stage, you are deeply wounded and confused, torn between decisions.

December 29, 2024 4 min read

A Man’s Love: His Kisses Speak the Truth

“The starting point of love isn’t always physical, but when love reaches the body, it reaches its pinnacle.” Men and women express love differently, with men being more direct and women being more reserved. When a man truly loves you, he will unconsciously want to be close to you. A man’s love for you can be seen through his kisses, so don’t underestimate them. Unconsciously wanting to kiss you “Before I met you, I never thought about getting married. When I met you, I never considered anyone else.”

December 28, 2024 4 min read

Gender Inequality in Relationships between Men and Women

Shakespeare once said, “Women do not have the conditions to be arrogant in love.” In the past, this seemed like a conclusion based on a specific historical era. But now, looking at it in modern times, it still applies. In a romantic relationship, if you are constantly in a power struggle with a man subconsciously, you’ve already lost. True empowerment means not even noticing the existence of this power struggle.

December 27, 2024 4 min read

Extramarital Affairs: Most People Can’t Find True Love, Unfortunately Many Don’t Understand

Some say: “Loving you is a warm memory, a romantic feeling, a sweet attitude, a bitter wait, and an inexplicable inner passion!” Love is wonderful, but sometimes it can be troublesome. Being in a hidden relationship requires patience. Some people wait a long time after encountering extramarital affairs, only to realize they have been deceived in the end. In reality, most extramarital affairs don’t lead to true love, yet some people remain obstinate.

December 26, 2024 4 min read

How Relationships Go Sour: It Starts With Three Interactions

John and Mary have known each other for three years. They work at the same company. John liked Mary from the moment she started working there, but he was too shy to say anything. Now, after three years, they’re still both single. John couldn’t hold back any longer and confessed his feelings to Mary. She didn’t reject him, and their relationship grew closer. They started having dinner and going to the movies together. Their feelings for each other quickly blossomed.

December 25, 2024 4 min read

Three Stages of an Affair: If You Encounter the Third Stage, Get a Divorce

Xi Murong said, “Marriage isn’t just about two people facing each other. Marriage is about two people holding hands and facing the world together.” When people get married, they usually understand this principle and strive to achieve it. Unfortunately, as time goes by, everything becomes routine, and this goal becomes blurry. Some people start to regret their marriage. Some people start comparing their families. Some people regret that their love seems to have faded.

December 24, 2024 4 min read