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Is It Just You Being Dramatic? Maybe You’re Just Too Free.

A friend I hadn’t talked to in a while called me. It was below zero outside, and my hands went numb after taking off my gloves to answer the phone. My friend just kept talking, complaining about how her husband was always working, and how they fought all the time, and how her relationship with her mother-in-law was… I couldn’t stand the cold or her negativity anymore. I just said, “I get it, we’re all working hard. But what you’re talking about seems like you’re just showing off.”

August 2, 2025 6 min read

What Kind of Woman Gets a Man’s Heart?

What kind of woman gets a man’s heart? In real life, every woman wants to be the one for a man. But when it comes to love, men weigh things too. Women who really get a man’s heart often have these qualities. You can’t miss any of them. Hardworking Women: Life doesn’t treat you with kid gloves just because you’re a woman. In real life, everyone is alone. No one can save anyone else. A woman should learn to work hard. This is how she takes control of her happiness. If you’re always growing inside, you’ll break through and become the person you want to be.

July 24, 2025 4 min read

The “First Time” in a Woman’s Eyes, with a Sense of Inferiority that Has Troubled Me for a Long…

When I first talked about love with him, I thought it was easy to be with someone. Since we could be sincere and genuine, we could naturally be together with all our hearts. I used to think it was simple, willing to love him with all my heart. Like a moth to a flame, I got hurt later on. From loving him to being hopeless and leaving him, the emotional changes were too fast.

July 12, 2025 7 min read

The Best Way to Forget Someone: Recall Intensely Until Exhausted

They say too much of anything will lead to a backlash. When we repeatedly indulge in the same food, our brain will react by starting to reject it. Similarly, when we keep admiring the same scenery, our aesthetic sense will tire and become weary. So, can forgetting someone be achieved by truly trying to forget? In my opinion, absolutely! “Go Against the Grain” Some say nothing is more sorrowful than a dead heart, and forgetting is the best way to erase someone from memory. However, forgetting someone is always the most challenging step to take.

June 23, 2025 4 min read

When a Woman Is “Easygoing” in a Relationship, She Won’t Be “Reserved” at These 3 Times

“Habit is everything, even in love,” said W.V. Quine. A person’s character and their usual way of life are formed over a long time. It’s hard to change them quickly. Even for love, it’s difficult to change. These habits will often carry over into a relationship. For example, some people are naturally competitive. In love, they become bossy. They like to control their partner and the direction of the relationship. Some people are sensitive and suspicious. Even if their partner loves them, they can’t fully trust them. They don’t feel completely secure in the relationship.

June 11, 2025 4 min read

Understanding Troublesome Women, Winning Men’s Hearts

“Love is a woman’s lifelong story, but just a fleeting episode in a man’s life.” There are many devoted women in the world, but also many unfaithful men. In relationships, women often find themselves in a vulnerable position because they are more emotional, while men tend to just scratch the surface of emotions. Some women throw themselves into love, giving everything, only to end up empty-handed. Recently, while chatting with friends, we discussed love. I asked:

June 1, 2025 4 min read

“Mom, He Doesn’t Want Me Anymore” “Can’t Afford the 500,000 Dowry, Pathetic”

They say different places have different marriage customs. Marrying off a daughter or taking a daughter-in-law is a big deal for a family. Marriage is the union of two families, so before getting married, we should respect each other so that we can have more happiness after marriage. Dowry is just a formality in our marriage customs. The amount of dowry can also highlight how much the other person values you.

May 18, 2025 4 min read

The Three Indications of Soulmates Being Together

“One flower, one world; one leaf, one pursuit; one song, one sigh; one lifetime for one person.” Whether abroad or domestically, everyone is searching for their soulmate, that one unique person. In the vast sea of people, you may encounter many, but true kindred spirits are rare. Some you may be in a romantic relationship with, but not truly understand each other. Others may be your kindred spirit, but not romantically involved.

May 5, 2025 4 min read

How to Make Your Girlfriend Love You More

1. Train Your Girlfriend (Role Perception) Training is not always necessary. If you want a natural beauty, just stand by and admire. But if you want your girlfriend to be tailored to your thoughts or wishes, you need to put in some effort to train her. First, about training, it’s not about forcefully controlling someone’s behavior. The essence of training is to change your own behavior, and the other person’s behavior will naturally change.

April 21, 2025 3 min read

The Most Vulnerable Women in Marriage Are Often Those Who Possess These Two Traits

Goethe once said, “Love is the true driving force that revives people.” When it comes to love, the more you expect, the more you’ll get hurt in the end. In relationships, you’ll eventually realize that the right person doesn’t need you to chase after them desperately, nor do they need you to plead with them humbly. A good relationship is a mutual effort between two people. If one person doesn’t love you, no matter how much you give, it’s all in vain. Marriage is a journey, and for a woman, it’s a gamble. Many women get hurt in marriage, and those who have been hurt often gain new insights into relationships.

April 20, 2025 3 min read