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How Much He Loves You, No Need to Test, You’ll Know in Three Days

Many women in love lack a sense of security, so they often test their partner in relationships. But I want to say that if he truly loves you, you won’t need to test him; you’ll know in three days. A few days ago, I received a letter from a friend, and in it, she wrote: We’ve been in a relationship for three years, and we met through friends. At first, we didn’t have any pressure, but later, when we started talking about marriage, we encountered huge conflicts.

February 21, 2025 4 min read

Those Who Get Hurt in Love Are Often Clueless About These Three Principles, Don’t Be Naive

Only selfless love is true. Perhaps everyone has their own scars when facing love, and some people get hurt in love because they don’t know how to cherish happiness. Many people get love but don’t appreciate it, and many others envy those who have it. This is the paradox of love. Pingping and her boyfriend had been dating for two years, introduced by friends. At first, the guy treated Pingping very well, showing great care for her, which touched her heart.

February 20, 2025 3 min read

People Who Stay Single for a Long Time Do It by Choice

After starting work, I rarely see well-off, comfortable, and ambitious guys staying single. If they do, it’s usually because they want to. In this game of pursuit, boys have always been the ones in control. In high school, most boys were already crushing on girls, and vice versa. But back then, everyone was focused on the pretty, attractive, and high-achieving boys and girls. In everyone’s dreams, there are goddesses and gods, and you’ll find that they are also goddesses and gods to those around you.

February 18, 2025 5 min read

Breaking the Cycle: Zhang Guimei’s Mission to Educate Underprivileged Girls

Principal Zhang Guimei of Huaping Women’s High School recently told a student, when she came with her husband to donate, “Get out! I worked so hard to get you out of the mountainous area, but now you’ve become a full-time housewife.” Zhang, who is in her senior years, is the Party Secretary and Principal of Lijiang Huaping Women’s High School, as well as the Director of Huaping Children’s Welfare Institute. She is a “teacher mom” to students of all ethnic groups and a “real mom” to 136 orphans.

February 17, 2025 3 min read

Optimizing Your Personal Life Leads to a Successful Marriage

In traditional thinking, girls are often taught to focus on marrying into a good family to have a worry-free life. Even nowadays, when a girl doesn’t excel academically, the advice is to aim for an average level and marry a well-off husband. At work, if you are attractive and have a stable income, older colleagues will set you up with potential suitors. Many believe that as long as a woman has a stable income, good looks, and a good job, she should have no worries. While such cases exist, they are rare.

February 16, 2025 3 min read

Are Women Over 40 Still Interested in Marital Life? Three Women Share Their Secrets

In this world, everything is constantly changing. We all envy those who can maintain a lifelong romance, but the number of people who can achieve this is dwindling. In ancient times, people could have multiple spouses, but they were able to make it to the end. Now, women have more freedom, so they can initiate a divorce if they want to. Everyone has become more equal, and women in marriages can now say “no”.

February 14, 2025 4 min read

If You Notice These Signs in Your Marriage, It’s Time to Rethink Your Relationship

Nietzsche once said, “Marriage is unhappy not because of a lack of love, but because of a lack of friendship.” Friendship requires mutual understanding, communication, and help. Without these, friendship is difficult to maintain. Marriage is the same. To achieve happiness, it requires joint effort and maintenance from both parties. Marriage hates laziness; the more you neglect it, the more it will make you feel unhappy. The emotions between spouses need to be maintained in a balanced and stable state. If you ignore it when you’re busy and try to pick it up when you’re free, it might be too late.

February 13, 2025 4 min read

A 25-Year-Old Girl Tells You: Is Her Marriage Happy by Marrying a 40-Year-Old Man?

“May-December romance” has always been a topic of discussion for many young girls. However, it is often not accepted by many parents who wonder why their daughters would choose a man much older than them but similar in age to themselves. In today’s society, the love between older men and younger women is quite popular. The main reason is that the way older men show affection can make many young girls feel secure and cared for.

February 12, 2025 5 min read

How Do I Forgive Him After His Infidelity ?

Yesterday, I received a plea for help from my friend Jenny. She said her boyfriend cheated on her, and she can’t let go but doesn’t know how to forgive him? I truly understand what it feels like to be betrayed by a beloved person. I remember, not long after breaking up with my first love, he accepted another girl’s pursuit. Even though we had already broken up, we had been together for several years, and this carefree behavior made me feel that we really couldn’t be together again. It made me feel betrayed.

February 10, 2025 8 min read

The One Who Lingers in the Heart, Whether Seen or Unseen, Will Be Missed

Emotions are a strange thing. They can take root in your heart without you realizing it. By the time you notice, you’re already deeply in love, unable to be without them. Just like the one who lingers in your heart, whether seen or unseen, will be missed. Love is love, and when we truly love someone, we constantly think about them. Wondering what they are doing at this moment, and if they think of us too.

February 8, 2025 4 min read