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3 Common Breakup Tactics Used by Scumbags, Girls Beware

What is a “scumbag”? According to the encyclopedia, it refers to a man who is selfish, good at taking, irresponsible, and plays with other people’s feelings. During the dating process, some women, due to bad luck, inadvertently encounter these immature, cowardly, and disrespectful men. The reason these men are called scumbags is not just hearsay. You can tell by their behavior and attitude when breaking up. When women want to break up, they generally do it decisively, clearly stating the reasons and ending the relationship. But scumbags may not say a word and simply disappear without a trace. They may not break up face-to-face or over the phone but instead inform the woman unilaterally via FB, saying “Let’s break up,” and then proceed to block her. If the woman asks “Why?” she receives a system prompt saying “You are no longer friends.” Scumbags like to use unclear attitudes. Women who can’t see through these men’s intentions may choose to wait because they’re reluctant to leave, only to be hurt deeply.

December 24, 2023 3 min read

Ten Tips for Long-Distance Relationships You Must Read

With the increasing diversity of communication methods, long-distance relationships are becoming more common. However, despite the advancement of communication, couples separated by distance still face obstacles. Long-distance relationships are high-risk and require more effort from both parties. This article provides ten practical suggestions for long-distance relationships, helping everyone understand the biggest challenges and risks and how to avoid and deal with them. Are You Suitable for a Long-Distance Relationship? Before entering a long-distance relationship, it’s best to consider if it’s suitable for you. Long-distance relationships are selective.

December 23, 2023 3 min read

From Estrangement to Father, Perhaps Another Kind of Fulfillment

I once read: “A father’s love is like a mountain, towering and intimidating, making people hesitant to climb; a father’s love is like the sky, broad and profound, making me look up and feel pity without daring to howl; a father’s love is like a river, slender and flowing, making me hesitant to wade.” I often hear people say “strict mother and stern father.” It’s because of the seriousness of the father that many people are close to their mothers but distant from their fathers.

December 22, 2023 5 min read

Don’t Rush into a Relationship with Someone Too Quickly

Let me tell you about a friend’s personal experience. This young woman, 28 years old, was under intense pressure from her family to get married. She happened to meet a man online, and after a period of enjoyable conversation, they decided to meet in person. After their meal, the man suggested going to a hotel. The young woman was hesitant at first, but she thought she was quite satisfied with the man in every aspect. She was afraid that if she refused, there might not be a future between them. After much consideration, she agreed.

December 21, 2023 5 min read

When a Woman “Scolds” You with These Three Phrases, Don’t Get Mad, Her Subtext is “Conquer Me”

Women are usually more reserved in life, which means they might be hesitant to express themselves in relationships. If a guy likes a girl, he’ll usually go after her openly. Unless he’s a total newbie at love, but even then, guys are pretty bold these days. But if a girl likes a guy, she might try to get him to pursue her first. Sometimes she really likes him, but she wants him to conquer her.

December 20, 2023 5 min read

In Bed, This Is How Men Show Love

In relationships, women often wonder: Does he really love me? How much does he love me? Nowadays, everything is about efficiency, even dating. Being in a relationship for over three months without physical intimacy is considered slow. Not only women, but men themselves may not always be clear about whether their passion contains love or is just hormonal impulses. The shorter the time of knowing each other, the harder it is to distinguish.

December 19, 2023 4 min read

Facing Infidelity, Transform and Heal Yourself Bit by Bit

After being betrayed, it’s common to make significant decisions that require time. Before making a decision, people often get stuck in a painful situation, unsure of what to do next. If you’re lost, start with small things, one step at a time, and let yourself heal. You Need an Emotional Outlet When you’re betrayed, it’s like getting a heart disease. You need to clear out the emotional blockage and find an outlet for your emotions. Many people choose to confide in the person who betrayed them, which is a huge mistake. You can’t expect someone who hurt you to heal and comfort you.

December 18, 2023 2 min read

If a Man Doesn’t Want to Share These with You, He’s Pretending to Love You

“People’s hearts are inscrutable!” When you’re with someone every day, you never truly know what they’re thinking. Sometimes, what they say may not match what they feel. In love, women also lack security. They fear that men may abandon them or that their love is insincere. In a Thai drama called “Mermaid,” the supporting actress is afraid the male lead will leave her. She often asks him, “Do you love me? Say you love me.”

August 17, 2023 4 min read

Mom Says: You Can Date in College, But You Need to Understand These Three Things

I was reading a book once, and there was a scene like this: Two people from different villages were secretly dating. After a while, other people found out and started teasing them. The two couldn’t handle the pressure and broke up. But society is becoming more open now. We can date freely, even while we’re still studying. Especially in college. However, as society becomes more open, a lot of problems have also been exposed. Some students don’t pay attention to certain things when they’re dating in college, which leads to regret for a lifetime, hurting both themselves and their partners.

August 16, 2023 6 min read

Three Reasons You’re Still Single

Many single women, after being alone for a long time, gradually get used to the solitude and start thinking that being alone is not bad at all—free and carefree. However, when it’s quiet at night, they know that these are just excuses to comfort themselves. We’ve identified three types of single women. Which one are you? I’m waiting for fate to happen. Some girls are passive. Whether they meet someone they like or someone who likes them, if they don’t end up together, they console themselves by saying, “My time hasn’t come yet. I haven’t met my other half.” This is indeed a good reason to comfort oneself. Love requires effort from both sides—whether it’s making an effort to attract or pursue, you need to make an effort to bear fruit with your significant other.

August 15, 2023 2 min read